How to treat eccentric in-laws?

Unfortunately, I have such an eccentric in-laws. And the eccentricity is becoming more and more obvious, and I really don't know what to do in many cases. Because of their eccentricity, I will feel particularly uncomfortable inside, and there is nothing I can do at first. Slowly, after I couldn't change their ways, my attitude towards them changed from enthusiasm to politeness, and even politeness was a little cold. My idea now is that since you won't make me comfortable, I won't make you comfortable.

I think I made the biggest concession in this family relationship. I once simply thought that my mother-in-law thought I was an outsider and was not good for me. I accepted it. After all, I am an outsider in her eyes. As long as she is kind to my two children, I will be satisfied. My children are their grandchildren.

I bought presents for my parents-in-law, and then gave them to take care of my children. I went to work. Only a few days later, my mother-in-law began to make a scene.

I nag me every day that Dabao is naughty, and my Xiaobao still wets his pants when he is two years old. Then my Dabao got sick with her, and she didn't even know it. Or someone at home clearly wants to call me to work after I get sick and ask me to take my children to see a doctor.

Look again, she takes good care of her husband, brother and children every day, and always takes them to see them when they are sick. No matter how naughty and willful that child is, he is a good boy in their eyes. And the children are a little uncomfortable, and their eyes are full of anxiety.

I suddenly understood that my mother-in-law was really eccentric. But what I think is too simple, and I don't like me either. How can I like my children? It's already off. No matter how good you are to her, she can't think of anything good for you. So my heart is cold. I will take care of the children myself, and I won't be so good to you. Heart for heart, my enthusiasm for cold heart. I will naturally be cold to you in the future.