3 inspirational diary: people who are better than you are still working hard.

We struggle only because of ourselves. Hatred will dissipate, people will leave, morality and responsibility will collapse when you are weak. Only if you can stay with you for the longest time, struggle will make you happy. Strive to do something for your own happiness, and the struggle itself has the most fulfilling meaning. The following is my inspirational diary for everyone, I hope you like it!

Life can be cheap, but dreams cannot.

If I hadn't seen that house with my own eyes, I might never have imagined how hard life was.

It was many years ago, when I first came to Beijing, I dropped in on a long-lost friend. This girl has known me since she was a child and lives next door to my house. When I was young, we jumped rubber bands together, kicked shuttlecock together, quarreled together and fought together. Until she was about to enter middle school, she went to another vocational high school because of her poor grades. The study task in high school is very heavy, and the contact between us is getting less and less. Later, when her family moved away, she was completely broken. I still learned from my parents that after graduating from high school, she went to Beijing to study in a private higher vocational school. I don't know whether to study accounting or a foreign language.

Where did she get my phone number when I was in college? When her familiar and unfamiliar voice came from the phone, I was a little sad and missed. The embarrassment of filar silk lingers between us, but it doesn't affect me to miss the time when I have no guess with her. We agreed that if I went to Beijing one day, I would definitely visit her. At that time, she had not come home for two years.

That summer vacation, I took a simple bag and got on the train to Beijing. I still remember that fifteen hours of hard seat has made me unable to tell which leg is my own. The smell of smoke, wine, sweat and shoes converged into a strange gas in a small carriage, which made people want to vomit. When I walked out of the platform top-heavy, I saw the beautiful girl in a big red sweater waving at me hard.

She took me to Wudaokou to eat hot pot. The girl is actually as old as me, but I think there is a stronger sadness between her brow than me. I can see that she came to see me in makeup, but the thick foundation still can't cover the blue and black under her eyes. I asked her if she didn't have a good rest at ordinary times. She smiled and didn't want to explain more. She is just afraid that I won't have enough to eat and wants to put sheep meat in my pot. The water began to boil slowly and gradually returned to calm. Just at this moment, I can't express my feelings.

The night in Beijing is beautiful, but there is also a lively sense of alienation. Under the running light, she took my hand and went back to her home. I am like a noisy sparrow, constantly asking her all kinds of questions. Where is the house you rented? Can we walk there? Is it especially happy to live alone? Did you take that big teddy bear home? When I graduate, I will live alone ......

That year, she just graduated and earned 2000 yuan in Beijing.

That year, I was a junior, full of yearning and expectation for the world.

She took me round and round and came to the door of a high-rise residential building. I just wanted to ask her what floor we lived on, but before I could say anything, she took me to the other side of the building. There is a door that is not very spacious. The door is open and there are stairs to go down. She looked at me and said apologetically, I live in the basement. I am used to it, but I wronged you.

I looked at the dark stairs and smelled the damp and dark smell, which made me feel a little unbearable. However, at this moment, if I turn around and leave, it would be too melodramatic and sissy to live up to her kindness. I smiled, calmed her a little bit nervous and took the initiative to go downstairs. The stairs look narrow, but there is a hole in the sky below. Looking to the right at the end of the stairs, the endless corridor really shocked me deeply, and horror movies are nothing more than that. There are many wooden doors on both sides of the corridor, and there is a palm-sized exhaust port on the wooden door. Every door has a number, probably for the convenience of management. At about the end of the corridor, the girl finally stopped, took out her key and opened the door on the right.

Because it is a basement, the room smells damp and moldy. The temperature just entered autumn is not low, but the room is particularly cold. I slowly sat by the bed and looked at the small room carefully. Very small, really small, only a single bed and a small table can be put down. There is a rice cooker and a wok on the ground, and there is some food left over from the last meal on the table. The only thing that adds a little color to my room is a tall stack of books and a narrow glass bottle with white roses in the corner of the table.

Seeing that I kept staring at the flowers, she was a little embarrassed to explain: there is a flower shop next to the residential building, and there are always discounted flowers. I like it when I see it, so I buy one occasionally. I saw this bottle while visiting IKEA with my colleagues. It's 9.9 yuan. I thought it was cheap and beautiful, just enough for one or two flowers. This room is dark enough, you must add some life to it.

That night, we huddled in a bed and chatted. I know that the stack of books on her desk is to pass the self-study exam. I know that she is now an accountant in a small private company. I know her room didn't arrive in 500 yuan for a month. I know she lives so hard just to save up for her tuition and continue her studies.

She said, I really regret not studying hard before, but I was really stupid at that time. She said, this is the first time you have lived in such a shabby place. I can't help it Housing prices in Beijing are too high. She said that I heard that many stars had lived in the basement before, and I didn't feel wronged when I thought about it. She said, look at this sheet, this curtain, this tablecloth, I have carefully selected them. She said that my life is cheap enough, but I can't make myself cheap.

This is the first time that she has said so much to me since I met her. I can see that she hasn't talked to people like this for a long time. Seeing that I didn't answer her, she probably thought I was asleep, so she tucked me in. I turned my back on her, and my tears flowed wildly, so hot, just like my burning heart at the moment. I pulled the corner of the quilt and held back my sobs, for fear that she would see my gaffe at the moment. I know she doesn't need my sympathy and pity.

I didn't sleep well that night.

The walls between rooms are fake and have no sound insulation effect. I listened to the loud noise of someone walking in the corridor in the middle of the night, the sound of the toilet flushing not far away, and the shallow snoring of my sleeping friend, and my heart was silent. What can I do but accept when life tears its hidden wounds naked for me to see? I know life has never been so good, but I didn't expect it to be so bad.

I still remember my inner panic when someone stopped at the door in the middle of the night. As long as it is high enough, you can see the room even from the exhaust port. What could be more unsafe than this?

I stayed in that room for two nights with childish stubbornness until I left. In these three short days, I seem to have seen all kinds of life. In that long corridor, there are middle-aged couples working in other places, wandering singers with dreams of stars, loafers and rogues, and novices eager to succeed. ...............................................................................................................................

Before I left, I quietly bought a set of Japanese cotton four-piece suits for the girl from the Internet. Light blue cotton cloth with little white whale printed on it. Plain and beautiful, people can think of the taste of the blue sky and the sea at a glance. I asked her if she liked it, but she refused again and again, hiding the light under her eyes. Maybe the blue is too beautiful, which makes the house look more humble. But who cares? Don't you deserve to dress up just because the house is dilapidated?

I told her that I liked what she said, life can be cheap, but dreams can't.

I told her that I thanked her for taking me in and letting me really touch her life.

The train back was still a hard seat for fifteen hours, but this time, I didn't feel bitter at all. Maybe I thought of the warm bed waiting for me, the cheap and delicious food in the canteen, the hot pot I just ate in Beijing, or the sound of fireworks I heard that sleepless night. Life may not be easy, but we can always find our own place.

Time flies, and later, I also came to this city. She still came to meet me at the station to eat hot pot, but this time, she left the cold basement and moved to the sunny thirteenth floor. I brought flowers when I went to be a guest, and I could put them in a glass vase beside her bed. The little whale's sheets are still there, and the big teddy bear has been mailed from home. She cooked me a good meal, so I don't have to squat on the ground anymore.

It's still late summer and early autumn, but it's not cold at all.

I think life is like the weather, there are sunny days and cloudy days. It seems easy to laugh on a sunny day, but it may take more courage to sing and dance on a rainy day. The quality of life may not have much to do with the form of life, but inner satisfaction is the more important way to get happiness. It doesn't matter what we have now, but what we hope to have in the future. We can wear cheap clothes, live in cheap houses and eat cheap food, which is not terrible. The terrible thing is that our hearts and spirits become cheap, so our dreams become cheap.

The most priceless wealth in the world is called a dream. As long as we still have dreams, nothing can make us bow.

Those who are willing to struggle outside are all good!

Yu: People who are smarter than you are more diligent than you.

I have an average IQ, but I am more diligent than others. I'm not particularly stupid, but I'm definitely not the top smart type. Among the 50 students in Peking University, my IQ should belong to the lower-middle level, which shows that I am not a top high IQ.

Most people can't catch up with my diligence I work on average every day 16? 18 hours, if there is no social intercourse, the average time for three meals a day will not exceed half an hour.

I prefer to work from home. Get up at half past six in the morning and go to bed at twelve in the evening. I used to go to bed at two o'clock in the morning and get up at eight o'clock in the morning, but I found that such a routine was not good for my health. It is best to go to bed six hours early.

Whether it is hot water or cold water, it is necessary for me to take a bath every morning. When I really can't, I will water it with a basin of water to wake myself up and make the whole nervous system active. I pay great attention to keeping healthy. The first thing I do when I get up every morning is to run 1 to 2 kilometers, and finish at the fastest speed, so I sweat profusely every day, especially in summer. But generally do not take a shower at night, because the brain is easily excited after taking a shower.

After I finish exercising, I usually start work at 7: 30 in the morning until noon 12. The work includes mail processing, work arrangement, thinking about the development of New Oriental, etc. There are also some entrepreneurial counseling for children, such as various entrepreneurial projects contacted by Hongtai Fund, because it is not easy for young people to start a business.

My lunch is 90% box lunch, and someone comes to chat with me. It's also a box lunch for everyone, and a bottle of red wine at most. But I also pay great attention to my health. I'll walk 10 minutes after dinner. Besides walking, I swim once or twice a week and go hiking once or twice.

Both Kai-fu Lee and I are entrepreneurs who guide young entrepreneurs, but I pay more attention to rest than Kai-fu Lee. I was a little possessed for a while. Someone wrote to him at 2 am, and he wanted to reply to show that he was more diligent and younger than them. I told him that 1 1 really didn't need to turn off the phone at night, and the things outside had nothing to do with me. Turn on your cell phone at 7 am and deal with these things again. That's about what I am now.

I like traveling, and I will spare one or two months every year to travel specifically. Although I am over 50 years old, I am not worried about getting fat, because I use my brain too much. If you are really fat,/kloc-you will lose weight if you go hiking outside for 0/5 days.

Now, it's especially difficult to be quiet. For example, when traveling in a hotel, many people come to take pictures as soon as they eat, and their inner peace is disturbed. So nowadays, tourists usually go to the prairie, a place where there are almost no people, driving their own off-road vehicles and taking one or two people with them. They seldom talk. Give me a quiet private space.

I have 1/3 time to go to work every year. Go home for dinner at night 1/3, because I have to go home to accompany my children. There is still13 time for entertainment, and I travel about 100 days a year.

I dare not say that I have understood the essence of life, but at least I am more diligent than young people. My diligence can supplement my usual thinking and lectures. Take reading as an example. Usually when reading a book, I will write some new ideas and ideas intentionally or unintentionally. I have read a lot of books, but it is sometimes difficult to study hard. By studying hard, I mean reading a book intensively for one or several days. There are also 20-30 books that are carefully read in this year. By not studying hard, I mean that I finished reading that book in an hour or two. If all these are counted, I still read more than 100 books a year.

By plane and by car, these are all my reading time. Growing up, I've never been knocked unconscious by a car. When it is particularly bumpy, you can work on the computer, read books and watch videos in the car, and use the computer for ten hours, which feels like being in the office. So when I study and work on the road, I don't get carsick at all.

All my life, I have no feeling about the amount of money. When I was in Peking University, I was very happy with 60 yuan a month. There is so much money now, and it usually costs two or three thousand yuan a month, including books.

I was a teacher at Peking University, but I realized that my sense of accomplishment as a teacher was three or four years after I started teaching. One of the special gains of being a teacher is that students especially like your classes. However, this sense of accomplishment is not there at the beginning, but after continuous thinking, every class is making progress.

At first, some of you deserted in class, and some of you ran away with your schoolbags on your backs. Finally, there were fewer and fewer people in the classroom, and everyone in the classroom left early. I was very depressed in the first two years, because no matter how I teach, I feel that I don't have enough knowledge, and I will envy teachers who teach well, but I can't imitate them. Later, I found that all the students from other classes came to my class. It took about three years, which is a process.

Being a teacher is a process of understanding and mastering knowledge. You should be broad and profound, extrapolate, articulate, have an understanding of students and have feelings. This is a comprehensive ability. So I have always told college students that being a teacher for two or three years, no matter where you are after graduation, will be good for you all your life, become eloquent, know how to express yourself, and know whether the people in front are willing to listen to you.

What I am telling young people now is to go forward, work hard and struggle. As long as you don't do bad things, as long as you keep your conscience, everything else will do. Young people can't tell him that birth and death are inevitable like learning Buddha, so they entered the temple at the age of two. It doesn't make any sense.

Unlike the diligence of young people, my diligence is now another concept? Thinking. I will often write some notes, feelings and the like. My current experience is: the heart is retreating, and people are advancing. "Retreat with your heart" is to make the world wider, and "advance with your body" is because you know that if you don't advance against the current, you will retreat. But I can't tell these things to young people, because no one can plant their experiences on others. Just like cloning, you can clone another one, but that one is blank, and this one is full of wind and rain. These are two completely different States, one is a stinky skin, and the other is the existence of the soul inside the body with spiritual support.

So I want to say to young people, work hard and fall in love! Find the person you want most! Do what you want to do most! Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of suffering!

The third part of inspirational diary: Be very, very hard and be very, very happy.

It all started with a parent-teacher conference in Grade Two.

Parents' meeting, besides parents, must be the students themselves who are most nervous. This meeting seems to have nothing to do with us, but it is really because of us.

My mother also attended the parent-teacher meeting, and I was on tenterhooks at home, worried that the class teacher would speak ill of me. At five o'clock in the afternoon, my mother finally came home from the meeting. I carefully asked my mother what the class teacher said. Mom mumbled something, and then she said, after the meeting, she went to ask the class teacher if there was any problem with my college entrance examination. The tone of the class teacher seems to have left enough feelings, saying that it is ok to try hard to take two exams, and don't think about one.

Although what the head teacher said is true, I suddenly became angry when I saw my mother's sense of loss. I am a face-saving Leo.

The subtext at that time was: class teacher, class teacher, you actually humiliated my mother in front of so many parents. I will definitely prove it to you and slap you in the face with a copy of the admission notice.

In the second semester of senior two, I saw that the culture class couldn't go on, so I began to think of other ways. As for me, I never like to do stupid things, and I know my own form quite well.

One day, people from the art school came to our school to publicize and posted the enrollment materials on the back wall of the classroom when they left.

In fact, for people in key classes, it seems that everyone can't read the leaflets aboveboard, because everyone seems to have a * * * knowledge in mind: in key classes, you must work hard honestly.

I secretly looked at the enrollment materials. When I got home, I found an opportunity to mention it to my mother. I'm going to study choreography and take an art test. Mom didn't know exactly what was going on, but she told me at that time that as long as you thought it over, mom would support you.

In senior three, I really looked like a dead wave. I didn't go to school for three months and two months, and I took a professional class in Changsha, the provincial capital. Actually, I'm studying and playing. I just make up stories all day, not to mention how much fun it is.

Later, in the eyes of others, I had a hard art test. The children were sent by the whole family to accompany the exam. As for me, I am looking for accommodation, registration and exams on the streets of Changsha in winter.

At that time, I was still thinking that I would take a copy of the admission notice and hit the head teacher in the face.

And then I really did it.

After graduating from senior three, some students congratulated me on qq, saying that they saw the complete information of the whole grade admission on the Internet and told me a great good news. That year, only 15 people took a copy of the key class of Grade Two, and few copies were made. However, I am one of them.

When I arrived at the university in Chongqing, the first thing I did when I entered the dormitory was to send a text message to the class teacher in Grade Two, implicitly greeting his family.

I thought to myself, it's fucking cool, and finally I slapped him with a big fat face.

Last semester as a freshman, I was once depressed. Get up groggy with my roommate every day, and go to the cafeteria for a rough brunch at 9: 30 (of course, I haven't heard the English expression of brunch at that time). Although there are many courses, there are not many people who are distracted. They just play and play all day.

After I slapped the head teacher, I lost the motivation to struggle. It suddenly occurred to me that, oh, it was just a faint self-assertion and inexplicable hatred that supported me through these two years.

At the beginning of this year, I met Aijiu, who works in a film company. We talked on the phone several times, and he was particularly talkative. Every time he calls, he leaves an hour later.

We chatted and forgot about the cooperation. Ai Jiu talked about his high school days.

He is a child from the countryside. When he was at school, some students liked to look at him with colored glasses, and their self-esteem was particularly strong. At that time, he swore in his heart that he would mix out one day and teach those students a hard lesson.

He really works hard. After graduating from college, he went to Beipiao, took out his own production team and became the boss.

When he returned to his hometown for reunion in the New Year, he was generous with his guests and spent money like water. The considerate female classmate asked him very gently in private if he was upset. He froze for three seconds, then suddenly cried, hiding in the corner and crying.

He said that you didn't like me in those days, and I have devoted my life to fighting hard all these years just to treat you to a big meal today.

The female classmate was surprised. She said that she didn't remember that some students looked down on moxibustion at that time. On the contrary, she remembers that moxibustion was not very gregarious and her eyes were always fierce. Students occasionally talk about love for a long time, just saying that this person is not very friendly and difficult to get along with.

When moxibustion heard this, my heart, which had worked hard for many years, suddenly collapsed.

When we were young, our self-esteem was bigger than the sky, and we had many redundant nerves. The grass and trees around us are like a forest, which makes us breathless. We were red-eyed and vowed to cut down this forest ourselves one day. Finally, we found that the person you once hated was indeed the forest, but you are the soil under the forest, and the relationship with the forest should have been mutually supportive, not indifferent.

After the reunion, moxibustion was once lost in spirit. Once he was full of hatred, but now, he finds that hatred is only made up by himself, and even if it really exists, it doesn't make much sense, so his footsteps gradually stop. Later, his company also stopped.

After a year of depression, Ai Jiu returned to his old job and sought a job in a film company. He began to find the meaning of struggle again.

I asked him if you found it, and he said, I think I found it. Now when he is making a movie, his mind has stopped thinking about those revenge plans. He is immersed in the career he loves and gains a lot of happiness every day. When he is really sure that he is ready and strong enough to stop pinning his fighting spirit on others, he may start the company again. Because only by opening a well in your heart will you not die of thirst because no one has given him a bowl of water to drink during the difficult journey of life.

There are always some strangers in the circle of friends.

One day, I brushed my circle of friends and saw a boy who didn't say a few words write maliciously: Yesterday you ignored me, and tomorrow I will make you unattainable.

If I know him well, I'd like to convince him. Hatred may inspire your keen self-esteem, give you a temporary motivation and give you a chance to open the road to struggle, but it can't last long. All hatred will disappear one day. If you haven't found new meaning to fight for it before then, you will bow your head like a doll without electricity.

Since chicken soup became popular on the Internet, there are three sentences that make me feel very uncomfortable.

The first sentence is: I struggled 18 years to sit with you for coffee.

The second sentence is: Yesterday you ignored my love, tomorrow I will make you unattainable.

The third sentence is: thank you for looking down on me, so that I can live a more wonderful life without bowing my head.

These three sentences make your struggle ridiculous.

So you spent a quarter of your life drinking coffee with someone who is not important to you? Hehe, if nothing else, why should people have coffee with you? Because you work hard? Honey, don't be so mean.

People who ignored you before naturally have reason to ignore you, whether it doesn't matter or unattainable, it's just your circle that has changed. When the ability is not enough, even if you sharpen your head, you can't squeeze into other people's circles. At this time, your complaint is meaningless. Besides, why do you have to squeeze into other people's circles? When you are competent enough, you have a circle that makes them "unattainable". Why do you care about them? Anyway, you are not in the same circle.

You said it was because they once looked down on you that you lived a more wonderful life. So, one day, if people stop looking down on you, will you not be able to live?

The reason for our struggle will never be hatred, and hatred will never be the eternal driving force; Never be someone, it will only make you feel tired and make that person feel guilty; Never because of some kind of morality or responsibility.

We struggle only because of ourselves. Hatred will dissipate, people will leave, morality and responsibility will collapse when you are weak. Only if you can stay with you for the longest time, struggle will make you happy. Strive to do something for your own happiness, and the struggle itself has the most fulfilling meaning.

We must work very hard and be very, very happy.

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