Why do children in the lower grades of primary school especially like to complain?

Many families have only one child, so children are highly concerned in the family, but in school, children are not the only ones. Many children want the teacher's attention, but they can't have a better choice. Therefore, through the behavior of complaining, they expect to get the teacher's attention and praise, but they don't know the right or wrong amount and frequency of complaining.

Another family has more than two children. Children hope to get more attention from their parents, and they also hope to get praise from their parents by complaining.

For children in this situation, parents and teachers are advised to pay more attention to their children and let them pay attention to other places.

Step 2 seek protection

Seeking protection, whether at home, school or going out to play, is a very common behavior. Children are timid. Once they encounter something, their first reaction is to find a place or person he thinks is safe and seek protection.

In this case, the problems between children of similar age should be solved as far as possible. Parents and teachers just need to guide him and tell him whether it is correct or not. Gradually, minor problems can be solved by themselves, which will reduce complaints.

Step 3 escape punishment

When children do something wrong, this kind of behavior will appear, so many children will have a psychology. If they complain first, they must be right. If they do something wrong, they should complain in front of others and escape punishment, but this is not the case.

So once the child takes the initiative to complain, it turns out to be his fault. Be sure to give him a little punishment and tell him the truth!

4. Reporting and exposure

This behavior should not be encouraged, let alone criticize another child in front of a "complaining" child. It is necessary to prevent children from complaining because they want praise or jealousy from teachers and parents. Teachers and parents should correct this complaint in time, let children realize that their actions are wrong, and children should unite and help each other.