How to chat with girls to find a topic

Chatting with girls can be done through the following topics:

1. Everyone likes it. When you know the preferences of girls and see the advantages of girls, it is easy to find a suitable topic.

2. Topics of interest. Find a topic that girls are interested in and arouse their curiosity, then they will have a chance to chat with the rhythm.

3. Daily life. Talking about daily life, the lighter the topic, the better.

4. Interesting job. Saying this sentence can show that you love your job.

5. Travel experience. If you have places where you have all been and have similar experiences, it is naturally the most appropriate topic.

6. The latest movie. Gossip always seems a little girly, but the latest movie is undoubtedly much better.

7. Hometown customs. People who love their hometown always feel reliable, steady and affectionate.

8. Looking forward to life. Talk about your most desirable life state and paint a future for each other that you will work hard for.

9. Personal interests. We can understand each other's interests, which is a very important topic for the future and easy to cause laughter.

10. Childhood anecdotes. Whose childhood didn't have an anecdote? Speaking out will not affect your glorious image, but also make people think you are kind and lovely.

1 1. Baby. Although not yet, show love is all-encompassing. Or you can emphasize your original intention of not having children.

12. Pet love. You can tell a person's character from his pet.

13. Interesting joke. Or interesting content such as interesting videos is more likely to arouse girls' interest.

The reason why boys and girls can't find a topic in chatting:

1. Girls don't cooperate. In fact, feelings are between two people, and communication is the same. If you can't find a topic when communicating with the opposite sex, or if there is no new topic to join, it will definitely end this communication. One of the reasons is that the woman does not cooperate. If the woman doesn't want to chat with you, or is disgusted with you, then the chat can't go on. If a boy finds a particularly interesting topic, or talks with expectation, and the woman is not interested at all, and always answers with an "oh" or an "um", then even a boy with good chat skills can hardly go on.

2. Too strong a purpose leads to nothing to say. In the pursuit of girls, this is actually a mistake that many men make. They are eager to express their love and especially want to express their concern in one sentence, so they are always eager to express it. On the other hand, after they like someone, they always want to know her every minute. After all, this "possessiveness" in love is a common mentality of everyone. However, this mentality will just cause the dilemma when chatting. Because of the purpose, the topics that are naturally spoken will be based on their own purposes, such as asking each other three meals a day, asking each other what they are busy with intermittently, and so on. And these topics will eventually lead to nothing to say after three or five sentences. Therefore, it is advisable to relax in the chat and communicate naturally every day, so that there will be a steady stream of topic input.

3. Questions and answers will become more and more embarrassing. Many men always want to get to know each other when chatting with girls they like, and constantly start the topic by asking and answering questions. On the one hand, they want to know the girl, in order to make themselves more familiar with each other, on the other hand, they want to show the girl that they care about and love her. However, this question-and-answer topic and the other party's answer will only make two people speechless in the end. In fact, the reason why we can't find a topic in communication is because too many men just want to chat by question and answer. However, there will still be no follow-up after this question-and-answer method, which will make the chat between two people deadlocked. The best way is to ignore the question-and-answer chat, and talk more easily, and learn to understand each other's preferences in the topic, so as to get along more happily.

Boys and girls chat skills:

1. Praise the girls first. In order to make girls happy and achieve the function of opening boxes. No one hates compliments from others. If a girl is happy, she will be interested in having a deep conversation with you.

2. Add leading questions. If you want to know more stories about a girl, you can ask her directly. You don't have to beat around the bush in this respect. For example, you can ask a girl directly: What are your hobbies? When she tells her hobbies or stories, you also need to tell your own stories, and you also need to let girls know about you.

3. Extend deeper. The second step, chatting is still a shallow chat. If you want to chat in depth, you need to continue to work hard. For example, the girl above said that she likes traveling. You can say: I like traveling very much, too. A friend went to Hainan to play the other day. I am so envious. Imagine the white sand beach, blue sea water and delicious coconut, I am intoxicated ... by the way, do you have any special places to go? This is an example of in-depth chat, which brings girls into the picture through "description" and then extends the topic.