The elders are still cooking at the construction site. Tell me about it.

I have lived under your strong arms for as long as I can remember. At the age of 30, you gave birth to me, because you had raised three sisters before, and the birth of a baby boy was particularly precious to the family at that time.

? I climbed up the kang wall and watched you cook with firewood next to the stove mantis. You peel corn under the eaves, and I lie on the grain pile and blow silk whiskers. When a bad boy older than me bullies me. You will swing away the branches of dead leaves, but you are not afraid of the angry fingers of outsiders!

Under your strong care, I hid in my wings like a chicken and dared not compete with other children for toys. Such a "good boy" has grown up slowly. Invisibly, your tenacity and fearlessness nourish my little timidity and obedience.

? When it comes to marriage, it proves once again that personality determines fate and happiness depends on self-control.

? Elder sister inherited your genes, and it was vigorous since childhood. Originally, I was an excellent Miyoshi student every year, but I played with the girls in the village all day and complained that learning was too brain-consuming. It is better to embroider a flower pillow towel and be a pig grass! So we play with stones in groups of three or five, collect candy paper and draw colorful cards to relieve boredom. I missed my homework and couldn't keep up, so I asked some girls to play truant together. I ran to grandma's house and hid in the granary, but I couldn't bring my father's bullwhip back to school.

Big sister is notoriously headstrong. Although my daughter is ill, she doesn't like doing housework. Although the girl's face was sunburned into a pot film, she still had to plow and pull the soil with her father.

She doesn't want you to help her uncle with the farm work. My uncle is afraid that he doesn't love labor and engage in sideline business, and he will regard himself as an idle youth. I can't say that I am a daughter-in-law in my thirties, but you help me cut wheat and arrange marriage every summer. Sister complains that you run away from home all day and often go to grandma's house. To this end, the two women also quarreled and fought.

When my sister was fourteen, I was at loggerheads with your stick. Our little brother and sister were scared to cry, and climbed behind the window root to cry ... now that I remember, my eyes are wet. I really admire my sister's courage! ?

? She has always been fearless and brave. At the age of fifteen, she went out to work with people from neighboring villages, and cooked and lived in tents on the construction site in the Gobi Desert with Tang Jie. Two months later, the foreman absconded with money and didn't get much money. I bought you a square scarf and dad's hat when I came back. Our little brother and sister naturally got a lot of sweets wrapped in colored paper. Her tanned face and bright eyes are full of affection!

Later, her father entrusted her with money to enter the factory, but she still went her own way and sold the overstocked sweaters in the factory while going to work. Riding a 28-year-old bicycle and carrying a luggage bag, wandering in border towns and rural areas, bargaining with people and fighting with unhealthy young people. She is bold and has the right idea. She dares to do it, she can go on, and she can't see what she discussed with her mother.

My dad was worried about the wedding, but she was just like that, loving what I love and having no regrets!

There are many people visiting relatives, but under the pressure of being a father, they still have to make an appointment, but if they can't see the role in their eyes, in a word: no, even if you catch up with the door, she won't turn her head, get on the bus and run, and no one will try to stop her.

Finally found the right person, I got married and lived happily.

Let's talk about the second sister, a beautiful girl with weak nature and bad karma.

I remember from an early age that she loved dressing up and was afraid of working in the sun. Do whatever your parents tell you. But there is no guarantee that it will be done well. Poor study, bifurcated work, after being reprimanded by adults, I know to hide in the bedroom and cry, not arguing with anyone, not stubborn. Just like an obedient daughter, but it is a serious injury to her character.

Second sister works as a private teacher in the village primary school. Although she doesn't have a diploma and no preparation, the villagers still respect a rural girl as a teacher. Especially from the boring, dusty, sun-exposed farmland, I dressed neatly and elegantly, riding a brand-new light bicycle and coming and going gracefully.

In the prime of life, it attracted many suitors. One of them taught me chemistry. This teacher is public, but short, similar to me. I was in Grade Two.

I wonder if second sister is interested in him? But from the token he later passed on to my second sister, it can be confirmed that he really loves her. I peeked at the love letter he wrote to my sister with pen and ink. The paper was wrinkled when folded. There is also a collection of love poems, the pictures are semi-nude pictures in European and American styles, and there are difficult and obscure poems. After I gave it to my sister, I found her cheeks flushed after reading it, and she didn't write back or anything.

Later, the teacher invited a bold and honest colleague to my house to talk about relatives. I was doing my homework in the hall, because it was my teacher, and the scene was very embarrassing. In the end, my parents still disagreed. I think male teachers are weak.

When it comes to getting married, the second sister is also hesitant. I think she probably didn't like the teacher very much at that time.

Factories in other places are just recruiting people. In order to escape this marriage, father let you go to other places. However, she only works as a temporary worker. I don't know if the second sister regrets it, but the actual living conditions are not ideal. All I know is that she shed a lot of tears. Her heart refuses to live anywhere else. She has always been a conservative, homesick, materialistic and almost stingy person. But she still obeys her parents' wishes. They arrange life, marriage and everything except the fate of adulthood ... which is sad. This also caused her unbearable life later.

Up to now, she has no children. Sick, marriage is patchwork, only remarriage is cohabitation, no happiness and happiness!

I don't know whether it's her own fault or her mother's interference. In the last marriage, my mother completely let go and didn't participate. It was all her heart, but she still failed. And the loss was even greater, which caused my father to get sick, but it didn't help. So far, I don't know why. However, I vaguely feel that the second sister is rigid and stubborn and has some shortcomings. It's really heartbreaking, but it can't be changed This is her character weakness. People are over forty-five. What can we do? Only sigh!

Third sister died when she was a teenager, and she will never mention this sad thing again. This is a sore spot for her mother.

It's my turn to give a question. Talking about myself before my girlfriend, I worked smoothly, rose step by step, and finally became a senior technician. The house is logical, and it has been there since I was 20 years old. Mother intervened alone in finding a daughter-in-law.

I found a girl I like to take home before. You didn't say anything, but you sent someone away and fell out with me. You just said that your head is too short, which will affect your future height. You and I have been deadlocked for months. Finally, with the advice of relatives and friends, you still look sad and don't want to eat. Seeing this scene, I flinched and lost. ?

Finally, as you wish, you found a tall girl, only a little thinner. I know I can't be picky, and you agree. This marriage is over.

? Just ill-fated, a stable and peaceful life before marriage can't last forever.

My wife was pregnant that year and my company was on the verge of bankruptcy. I wonder how many people have experienced the hardship of not paying wages for more than half a year? My wife was pregnant and insisted on working in Dicos fast food restaurant, just to escape the dilemma of having no food to eat and do, but from then on, I was forced to leave the dilapidated factory and jump into the odd job.

At that time, I was very competitive and always wanted to work in the outside city. But when I brought this up in front of you, you tried every means to stop me, fearing that I would suffer, and that leaving my married wife behind would make me feel lonely and selfish. I argued with you for a long time, but I still didn't twist it.

I was an adult at that time and didn't want to do anything to make you angry. Do a little business, but worry about losing everything. The best age for me to start a business was thus strangled. Of course, the responsibility is not entirely yours, but my character is weak, uncertain and desperate when something goes wrong! This shortcoming was later discovered by my daughter-in-law. Every time I quarrel, I take it as irony, and scolding my husband is my "compulsory course".

Later, I mistakenly hit it and went to the leisure catering industry. At that time, I was full of confidence and resigned. I wanted to do it vigorously!

But fate played a joke on me again. My family and I have been preparing for it for a long time and have just opened for a month. My father, who could have built a house and cultivated land, was suddenly diagnosed with "cancer" in the middle and late stages, and the sky seemed to collapse instantly. Putting the business in the hands of his wife and accompanying his father to the provincial hospital for surgery made the already embarrassing economic situation worse. Fortunately, you have a good relationship with your father, and your relatives and friends also lend a helping hand.

My father should thank my mother for his postoperative care. Bring soup and medicine while bringing grandchildren, and the crops have to be dry. No one nearby refused to accept you. I served my sick father for four years until his death.

In the past four years, due to my father's illness, it has been good and bad. I never dared to go out for long-distance treatment because my father was ill. We both tried to pay off the debt. In the end, you have survived the most difficult days, but your temples are gray and dying. As a son, I am over forty years old, and I have a skill besides my major, so I can imagine the strength of my life.

In the past two years, the economy has been depressed and the catering industry has been hit hard. It is common to change places three times a year. I am very upset about changing places, and my mother is also very anxious.

When my wife sees other men, they all earn high salaries outside and come back to buy a car to show off. I also tried my best to persuade me to go out. I thought about developing the catering industry I was interested in, but she strongly opposed it, saying that it was healthy without making money, and I categorically did not support it.

Mother may have cooked all her life, served our family and got tired of this business. Whenever it is mentioned, it is also unpleasant, saying that a man's family should do the work of making money, and it is useless to walk around the stove all day. ...

Mom, mom! I want to tell you that not all men don't like being cooks. I have done a lot in other industries, but I am not interested! Can you let your son return to the Lord and continue to let him go his own way and do what he wants?

Seeing that I was too late to leave, my wife contacted my brother behind my back, engaged in construction in Chongqing, and promised to let me be an apprentice first. I have always been uninterested in the construction site, and even rejected it.

But the daughter-in-law is very happy. She found that the income from part-time work was high, and she could turn over to be a small foreman in three to five years. I took pains to find a way for me, just waiting for me to promise to leave.

In order to let me go out wholeheartedly, I broke the idea of staying at home and doing things. She gave my mother a plate behind my back: she ran away if I didn't go out!

Although the mother can't twist her daughter-in-law, she obeys her wishes. Persuade me to go out with tears in my eyes. How can I have any reason not to pull the trigger! How can I bear to make my old lady feel sorry for me again?

On the day of parting, my mother was still busy in the country and didn't come to see me off. When my backpack was filled with quilt cover and shoes and socks sewn by myself ... I cooked the last meal for the children, but I couldn't swallow it myself. I hid in the kitchen and cried. My youngest son came in, held my head and advised me not to cry. Looking at his tender face and worried eyes, the father and son embraced each other and began to cry again, and tears filled the child's forehead. ...

I have been away for several months now, and I feel numb to everything I have done, only endless thoughts about my hometown and relatives. In the face of the fate that cannot be chosen, there is only obedience. However, there is a saying in my heart: Mom, I have listened to you so much since I was a child that I lost myself. Now I am so incompetent …