The "sky-high tuition fees" of Hengshui Middle School have caused heated discussions. Are you willing to spend hundreds of thousands in three years to send your children to study?

If my family were in this situation, I would probably rather spend the money and send my children there.

In fact, let alone hundreds of thousands, I might be willing to spend more than 200,000, 300,000 or even more.

The reason why it is said "possible" means that there are certain conditions.

That is, the child still has room for improvement, and he also wants to learn and is willing to work hard to learn.

Otherwise, if the child’s grades are so poor that he cannot even get into a junior college, then if I have the money, I might consider whether it would be better to take the international education route.

Of course, the premise must be based on the child’s wishes.

I know that there will definitely be people who will make "economic calculations" on this issue, and there will definitely be people who will say things like "gold will shine wherever it is." In fact, I will say that too.

I can only say this when talking about other people’s things, that is, when someone encounters this kind of thing and asks me for advice, I may also say this.

But if this kind of thing really happened to me, it would definitely be a different story.

Most people who say this kind of thing are like this. When many people show open-mindedness and indifference to many things, the fundamental reason is not because they really think so, but because they Just haven't encountered it.

It’s like the joke goes, if you donated all the money you had, would you be willing? Because the person being asked the question knows it is a "what if", he will express his willingness generously.

This answer itself can satisfy others as well as yourself.

But if it is not an "if" but a "real" time, it does not mean that no one will do it, but more people will think of various things at this time, and then I thought of various reasons why I was not allowed to do this.

When it comes to things like going to high school, I can very well understand that some parents clearly know that their children cannot keep up with their studies. Even if they go to high school and graduate, it would be good, let alone enter college. , but many parents still try their best to create such opportunities for their children.

Many parents are willing to borrow money to send their children to expensive private high schools.

I can indeed understand the heart of such parents.

In fact, they don’t know that the result waiting for them three years later will disappoint them, but for parents, even if there is only a glimmer of hope, they hope that it can come true - this is what parents say to their children expectations, this is the love parents have for their children.

Although what we see in many things is that parents may have wishful thinking, and children do not know how to cherish it, but "poor parents in the world"...

I don't know how many people will I am such a parent. Of course, I don’t care how many people are like this, but I am certain that I am indeed such a person.

For the sake of my children, even if there is only a small chance, I am willing to give 200% of my efforts, no matter how hard it is.

It is difficult for "sane" people to understand this issue, because it is too easy to conclude that "it is not cost-effective".

But for anxious parents, they often value opportunities that may arise.

But that’s all I’m saying. We have been involved in the education of our children very early. The children are now in junior high school, and their current performance in all aspects is still very good. . And do we have too extreme rigid requirements for our children, such as having to be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University?

What we value most from the beginning when it comes to children’s learning is the guidance of children’s learning interests and the cultivation of learning habits. If we do these well, it is basically impossible for children to be poor in learning. And there will be a lot less things to worry about.

For example, we have barely taken care of the child's study since he entered junior high school, especially the child's study at home, which is all arranged by him.

Even if he stays up all night to study this kind of thing, we don't interfere. He stays up while he stays up, and we sleep at ours. Because he has to learn to find the most suitable learning arrangement for himself, instead of following the conclusions drawn by our "feelings" and "judgments".

But even so, if one day someone asked me, would you be willing to spend hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, or hundreds of thousands to let your children like Qingbei? I would say: Add a zero at the end and I will work hard to get enough money!

So if you also encounter this situation, what would you choose? Will you work hard to give your children some time and opportunities to change, or will you send your children directly to a vocational school or technical school?