How can we attract people by talking? It's all yours

First of all, I think your idea is wrong. Speaking is not to attract people, but to express yourself to others and show your charm. You should have your own style when talking to others. Never change yourself to cater to others just to please them. Doing so will only make them decide what you are before and what you are after, which makes people unable to see through. Over time, even if your topic is attractive, others will only exchange a few pleasantries with you. Everyone hates what they cannot see through.

You want to talk attractive, which is just a manifestation of "centralism". Everyone wants to be the center of the group they care about. You see, the way your friends chat happily is not a taste, but also an emotional catharsis of feeling left out, that is, jealousy, but this is a normal emotional reaction and can help you adjust yourself.

It's not a day or two for you to talk attractive. If you want to be the center of the topic, you must first be a person who is willing to listen. You can listen to your friends' conversation, just listen, listen quietly, and then, with appropriate body language, such as nodding and smiling, these actions will make them feel that you respect them very much, and then express their views at an appropriate time. Don't talk about it. In fact, you will find that what you say is out of your control. All you have to do is "follow the trend" and follow the topic. If you are a cheerful person, when the atmosphere gets cold, a few jokes and funny tricks will increase your popularity. If it is implicit, you should slowly make yourself cheerful. I think cheerful people are more popular.

However, it should be noted that you must not change your style frequently, and you should talk to your good friends more. Start your popularity training from an easy place, always pay attention-unload your fortress, communicate with your heart, laugh more, talk more, and have confidence in yourself. Slowly, your popularity will rise.

Wish you success! !