Talk about children asking for money.

Faced with these two solutions, I believe that most children will prefer the first one, just because their parents' first reaction is to be caring and attentive, and nothing else.

People always have to look forward. Everyone has past events in his life that he doesn't want to recall, and he doesn't want to be mentioned by others. Adults are like this, and children are no exception. Children will inevitably do something wrong in the exploration of the unknown world. It is important to have a lost heart.

However, when children ask their parents for money, parents are not ashamed to mention that "unbearable" past in front of their children. Parents may just be unintentional, but listening to the child's ears makes him feel worse than parents directly rejecting the child's "no money."

Parents refuse to bring up the past again and again, which makes children sad, but it is also easy to cause lingering shadows in their hearts. For children, even "mid-year execution" is better than being forced to remember things they don't want to remember again.

"Besides spending money all day, what can you do? When I was your age, I knew how to make money to support my family. I also know how to help my family share housework every day. Look at you again. You can't do anything, you can't eat the rest. In addition to spending money or spending money, how can such useless waste be born? "

"Qian Qian rich, so small, only know to money every day, you Chou Chou your academic performance, do you have the face to money? Alas, how did I raise an idiot like you? It' s really a sin. "

Many parents can't help blurting out such hurtful words when their children ask for money. Parents' impatience with their children will only gradually cause their children's inferiority complex, gradually lose their self-confidence, and eventually lead them to imprison themselves in a cycle of self-denial.

"How can you spend so much money? Didn't I just give it to you two days ago? I can't afford to support you if you spend so much money. " "Didn't I just give you two days' money? Where did you spend your money? "

This phenomenon is believed to have been confirmed by many parents, who jump to conclusions before the cause of the matter is clear. If parents are willing to spend more time asking their children, there may be no misunderstanding and injustice, and parents will not drift away from their children, or even be forced to go astray seriously.

1. Ask and communicate in time.

Everything has a cause and effect. There must be a reason why children suddenly ask their parents for money. Parents must communicate with their children in time, but pay attention to the way of communication. Parents should never pretend to be elders and leaders, and never question their children with a "overlooking" attitude. That will only make their children more and more "disgusted" with their parents, thus affecting the feelings between parents and children.

For underage children, their eyes on the outside world are still relatively simple, so parents need to communicate with their children by "asking" when necessary. After parents understand why their children want money,

In addition to giving children correct and positive guidance, we should also tell them that "mom and dad can give you the money, but before you spend it, you must think about the cause and effect of this matter." Once you choose, you must have the courage to accept all the consequences, and then mom and dad can't control you. "

Parents should let their children know that every step requires courage and determination, and every penny is not wasted. Whether you succeed or fail, this money will bring you a "surprise".

2. Pay attention to the whereabouts of children's pocket money

Nowadays, although parents are not encouraged to interfere too much in their children's lives, some things still need to be interfered. Because children's thoughts are not yet mature, children need the active guidance of their parents.

Paying attention to the whereabouts of children's pocket money is not the monitoring of parents, but the necessary concern. Because children are still young, the concept of money is not very mature. What parents should do is to give their children a positive guiding role and cultivate their view of money.

When children ask their parents for money, parents must strictly ask their children where every pocket money goes. Parents should let their children know that whether they spend money or do anything, they need to be implemented in a planned way to succeed.

At the same time, this practice of parents is also conducive to cultivating children's bookkeeping habits, improving children's financial management ability and forming a positive and healthy consumption concept.

Besides, no matter how many solutions there are to all problems related to educating children, the most important countermeasure is whether parents can set a good example for their children.

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