Who do you admire most in your life?

It's one of my cousins, cousin Shanshan. Her life is very chic, and she seems to have a good grasp of what she should do every time. She is the object of my worship since I was a child.

? My cousin is a relative's daughter, not a close relative's cousin, but because our two families have a good relationship, we keep in touch from time to time. In this way, my relationship with my cousin is not bad. Although she got married and went far, we often met and chatted when we had time.

There is a good saying, try to live the life you want. In my opinion, my cousin's living method is the living method I want and the direction I have been working hard for. Cousin is fine. I don't know if all excellent people have this trait. She can plan for herself what she should do in each period and turn them into reality, instead of illusory things on paper. She has her own self-control. It seems that she can never bear to be lazy about what she should do, but it is not very rigid to do it in a way to complete the task.

Cousin is not a worrying child since she was a child, and she has always been among the best in her studies. She may be the kind of other people's children that many parents say when they educate their children. In terms of practical ability, my cousin is also very powerful, and she is by no means an imbecile with high IQ. My cousin's cooking is also very good, which makes me envy. It's obviously the same ingredients and the same method. My cooking is unstable, sometimes good and sometimes bad, but my cousin can always grasp it well and make simple ingredients into delicious dishes.

? In this way, the image of my cousin gives people the impression that she is a very virtuous and excellent girl, but if this is the case, my cousin will not become the person I admire most. Cousin also has her blood, and her rebellion is not irrational rebellion.

When my cousin was a sophomore, I met my cousin's husband. They were attracted to each other and soon fell in love. I was surprised when I found out. Maybe it's because I've been taught too much about the disadvantages of puppy love. I was worried for the first time. I'm afraid my cousin will become like the people on TV, because she missed her study in love. Later, because my cousin didn't mean to hide it, my family knew. So my cousin's house also caused a big storm. But my cousin can compromise on some things at ordinary times, but this time, she did not compromise with her family.

I will always remember that time, that scene. Cousin and aunt are negotiating in the living room. Cousin has always been very calm, giving me the feeling that she is not a party. When she negotiated with her aunt and uncle, she was very clear, and solved all their concerns one by one, saying that she didn't know how to reply. What I remember most at that time was a passage my cousin said. She said, "You are afraid that I will fall in love because my grades will be affected. I promise, I will continue to keep my grades, but "

My cousin's firm eyes at that time made me doubt my thoughts for a moment. Later, my cousin also broke the family's concerns with practical actions and successfully entered the university. Until now, my cousin has worked and got married. Of course, she is still the same person.

I always feel that my cousin always seems to know what she wants and how to do it, and always moves forward step by step towards the life she wants.