People who are too kind often get no respect from others.

People who are too kind often get no respect from others.

Too kind people naively think that they will be treated gently by others. Because you believe that others will treat you as you treat others, which seems reasonable, but it is not always what you think. You really helped others, but others didn't appreciate it. Even if he can do something, he won't help you. It should be said that people don't want to help you, and such things happen again and again. A friend once asked: You help others, others don't help you, ask you to help, but you still help? I said yes. Friend laughs: You are so kind!

I know that the implication of friends is that they are too weak and talkative rather than kind-hearted. But a leopard cannot change his spots. No matter how others treat me, I always treat others in my own way, because my heart is too kind to haggle over every ounce and hold grudges. I always return good for evil, hoping to touch others with my generosity and sincerity.

I am always too soft-hearted and kind. When things happen, the main station considers from the other side's point of view, empathizes with other people's difficulties and situations, and understands their temperament, words and deeds. I would rather let others fail me than anyone else. I would rather lose myself than let others lose. I will try my best to do what I promised others. If I can't do it, I'll feel I owe someone else. I entrusted someone else's business and didn't get help. I will find various reasons to understand each other's difficulties. No matter who I am, I am a Zhang Shanliang's face and a Bodhisattva's heart. Over time, a weak image is implanted in everyone's impression, so it is inevitable that something will happen.

I remember I had to work on Zhixue Online. Because I went to work early at noon, other colleagues haven't arrived at work yet. Just seeing a leader coming to the unit, I casually asked if I could know the account password. This question is irrelevant. It was like a bolt from the blue. The leader slapped me in the face and severely criticized me. Why don't I remember? Remember the account password by yourself. Is it necessary to let the leaders remember? I froze, I didn't react for a moment, and I turned away without saying anything for a few seconds.

what can I say? It's my fault that I didn't remember my account password. Even if I only used the website once or twice, I should remember it myself. Why should I ask the leader? Don't you know that the leader is very busy? Why should I go to work early? If you go late, someone will start logging in to make it. Don't you know the account password? Looking for reasons for everything from myself, I also forgave the leader's bolt from the blue.

When the leader smiled and apologized, I smiled indifferently and said simply, you are not wrong, but I asked the wrong time and met the wrong person at the wrong time. I really didn't care. Who's not in a bad mood yet? Forgetting the unpleasantness that happened is to let others let go and let yourself let go. To dwell on past unhappiness will only breed more unhappiness.

One thing that happened to me recently made me very depressed. Although I repeatedly told myself that I was wrong first, a voice clearly echoed in my ears: it was your relaxed talk that gave others a reason to make an example. Those who are hard to talk may have to weigh what others say.

A kind heart and kindness are not only true, but also a valuable quality, I firmly believe! It is the guarantee of good interpersonal relationship and harmonious society, but if it is not easy to talk about principles, it will give people a wrong impression and get less respect. In the real society and snobbish world, good people sometimes don't get good retribution.

Be wise and apply your kindness and kindness to people who are equally kind and kind, and to people who know how to be grateful. At the same time, be a little aggressive and sharp. Because roses with thorns are more delicate.