Don’t take it seriously

Happiness is not about having more

It is about caring less

Happiness

Sometimes it is hard to be confused

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The kind of life I particularly like is to have a group of friends around me who I can talk to. We all know each other and understand each other. We can talk about some things seriously and make some jokes with humor. I am particularly afraid of the kind of person who is very serious about everything. No matter if you do it intentionally or unintentionally, as long as it is not conducive to him, he will get angry and criticize you in all kinds of ways, making you feel particularly bad.

You need to be serious in life, but if you take everything seriously, you will only suffer and tire yourself.

Everyone around us has his or her own thoughts, and they may have thoughts that are different from our own, including the parents who gave birth to us. Even if we have the same blood flowing in our bodies, we may have opinions. When disagreements happen, people may have different thoughts on the same thing. Therefore, parents sometimes do wrong things and say wrong things. If you try to be serious to them and cause them a lot of harm, in fact, when you slowly recall it, you will also feel that your seriousness makes you very tired. .

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I remember a leader said something to me: "Aren't you tired of keeping other people's words in your heart? You remember things that others have done wrong so seriously. "How can you be happy?" When he said this to me, I was angry with him, because he had said some very annoying things before that, which made me feel disgusted with him. Yes, I was thinking of completely ignoring him and removing him from my world. However, he is my leader after all, and I can't completely ignore him. I still haven't received my salary for a few months!

During that time, my work was very unsatisfactory, and I was in a very bad mood. I did one thing wrong and nothing else. Later, a colleague analyzed the leader's words with me. She told me: "You can take some words literally, or you can pretend to be confused and don't understand. What he said may be just a casual sentence. It’s a joke, if you take it so seriously, it will make things difficult for yourself.”

Later, I observed the leader carefully and thought about what he said to me later, and I found that I was indeed too serious. . People, when they are familiar with each other, will naturally say anything, and the more familiar people are, the more direct they will be. Even if some words directly point out their shortcomings, this is really for our own good, otherwise we will never You won't know what you didn't do well.

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Some things, if you look at them more optimistically, the results will be ideal, but if you look at them more pessimistically, the results will be very melancholy. Everyone has his own thoughts. You can't stop what others say, and you can't change others. The only thing you can do is change your own mentality.

If you don’t like to hear some words, just treat them like a bird singing. There is no need to keep all those hurtful words in your heart and use other people’s mistakes to hurt yourself. Sometimes the smarter people are, the more miserable they are. Sometimes being confused and pretending not to understand the world is not necessarily a good thing.

Finally, I hope everyone will remember the saying "Be lenient to others and be merciful to others". Don't take everything too seriously, especially learn to "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others." If it's not something that violates your bottom line, just treat it as a joke, forget it, continue to do meaningful things, and spend time on important people and things. This way we will live a happier life, you said. Woolen cloth?