My boyfriend has hit me four times. I know we should break up, but I still love him. What should I do?

He’s been beaten four times even though he’s not married, and you still love him. Is it because you’re itchy and you’re a bitch? Don’t be beaten to death or monsters after you get married! If your body needs this kind of massage, just continue. I think separation is the best. Separation is a relief after such serious domestic violence.

Good girl, don’t you love me more and more the more you hit and scold me, and you feel uncomfortable without beating or scolding me? You've beaten him four times, which proves that your boyfriend has violent tendencies. It's better to leave as soon as possible.

There are only zero and N times of cheating and domestic violence!

You are not married yet, but your boyfriend has hit you four times. It shows that your boyfriend is not a good man. He is definitely a man without measure and quality. He is definitely a male chauvinist. He is definitely a male chauvinist. A person with a bad temper definitely has something wrong with his character!

How can you still love a man like this? Is your brain flooded or kicked by a donkey? Or are you resisting? If you marry him, you will live under violence and pain for the rest of your life!

It’s better to leave him as soon as possible. You can’t afford to be hurt by living with such a man. If you continue to cut off, you will be subject to chaos! There are many good men in the world, don't let your parents and family worry about you!

Listen to someone’s advice: The last thing a woman should marry is a man who commits domestic violence!

Because of love, you can’t bear to leave. So, all you have to do is wait and see if he loves you? I believe that after the first day, there will be fifteen; after the fourth, there will be fifth, sixth...

Because of love, you can't bear to leave. If you are beaten, then you have to be patient. It is you who walks the road, and you choose the people. Everything has both a cause and an effect. Beating you is the result, and there is a reason why I beat you. You actually understand the reason.

Because of love, you can’t bear to leave. When you are beaten, this is not love. You don’t want to leave, does this mean there is something wrong with you? It is impossible for a normal person to hit another person over and over again for no reason, especially the person he is sleeping with. Unless there is something wrong with this person, maybe there is something wrong with the other person, maybe there is something wrong with both people.

This is a type of love, a kind of mutual harm. This is not love at all. Love is not about hurting each other.

If you want to leave, please leave and stop hurting each other. Because love is not about hurting each other!

You are just making it up. Girls nowadays are all little princesses. Which princess is willing to be beaten and tortured by a man?

Unless you like to be a little ant and let others bully you, and regard it as enjoyment and happiness!

Or you look too ordinary, but the other person is handsome and fascinating, so you are willing to endure it for the sake of vanity.

Alas, why bother?爱情是美好而柔情的，如果是为了爱揍，岂不是脑子里灌了水？

As the saying goes, poor people must have their hateful qualities!

Speechless, I hope you can be a good sparring partner. If one day you can't stand it anymore, use his moves while the beast is not paying attention, and turn him into a grandson with one move...

Phoenix Dance really understands you, you love him very much, and I also believe that he loves you when he doesn't hit you, but I still give you this answer, break up immediately.

The reasons are as follows:

1. He didn’t love you at all when he hit you. When a person loves another person, he will never hit her. How can he bear to do it when it is too late to protect her?

Does he love his parents? He won't hit his parents! (If your answer is that he also beats his father and scolds his mother, then you should not be with him. Such a person has no conscience)

2. He looks down on you when he is not beating you.

Look, I beat her four times and she didn’t leave me. What a stupid person she is?

He has already beaten you. If you don’t leave him, he will look down on you; if you leave him, he will look down on you and cry in front of you, begging for your forgiveness.

You can't forgive him now that things have reached this point. Again, if you forgive him, he will look down on you even more, and he will think: Look, I begged her a few words, and she forgive me!

There is no turning back for many things.

Let’s talk about the issue of you loving him again. Do you really love him?

The so-called love means caring about him, liking him, and having a feeling of happiness with him. Do you feel happy being with him? Especially when he hits you, do you feel happy? No.

Leave him, poor woman! This man will not give you happiness.

Be the woman in the picture and be a strong person in life. Happiness will come! Believe in Phoenix Dance!

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Girl, I don’t want to say anything to you. You are indeed weird for a man to hit you four times and still love her! I once knew a girl who was beaten severely by a man before she got married, but she still walked into the wedding hall. The wedding was held on the morning of the wedding day, and she was dragged on the street and beaten by the groom in the afternoon. It became a local joke that year. The next year she gave birth to a big fat boy, who was beaten until he was still crying and howling, but she loved him...! I really don’t understand, this girl is so capable of resisting violence! Later, I heard that they were divorced and the man immediately married a new wife, but she wanted to go to his house just to see her son. It was so mean... You know she was a beautiful woman! Once I was chatting with a psychiatrist, and when we talked about this topic, he said that this girl had a serious mental illness. He said a lot, and I realized that the more the girl was beaten, the more scared she became and the more she relied on this maniac. She had severe obsessive-compulsive disorder! Girl, please adjust your mentality. It's like this now. How do you think about facing your future life? Women must have the four self-spirits of "self-reliance, self-improvement, self-esteem, and self-love" in order to live out their own world! For reference only! It is said that there are sadists and masochists. What does that mean? It means that when someone tortures you, you not only don't feel pain, but instead feel a kind of pleasure, a kind of pleasant satisfaction. You are such a person.

Your boyfriend beats you 4 times and you can’t bear to leave him! I still love him. I think you can't live without him now for two reasons:

First, you can still bear being beaten 4 times, which is too few times. You have a strong ability to withstand blows, please continue; today you have a bruise on your nose and face, and tomorrow you have a bruise on your body, this is a small thing for you, not a big deal!

Second, you love him deeply, and love is much more important than being beaten. Please continue to love him. Maybe you can't find anyone more pleasing to the eye than him right now. There are thousands of men in the world who can't keep up with him, so how can they leave?

In short, you are itchy, you still resist beatings, and you still can’t live without him, then that’s it! Why are you still hesitant to ask such a question? Make you look noble?

By the way, because of your presence, there may be one less girl who has been subjected to domestic violence, and you have done a great thing. Does everyone think so?

There is a Buddhist word called "a wake-up call". I hope that these words will wake her up and be useful to her!

Dear, wake up. Are you confused? Let me ask you, have your parents ever beaten you since you were a child? If your parents knew that you had a boyfriend and your boyfriend beat you, what would they think? When your parents raised you like this, they definitely wanted you to live a good life, not to get beaten.

What do you think? He beat you, but you still love him and can't let go of him. Since you can't let go, why are you still so entangled and asking questions on this platform? Facts have proved that you don’t love him enough, you are just used to his existence, and he doesn’t love you even more. If he loved you, why would he hit you again and again? Don't deceive yourself. He will hit you when you are not married yet and are just friends. If you are married, he will hit you even harder. Maybe he has a tendency to hit you violently. I think you should leave him as soon as possible. Such a person is not worthy of you. His love is too humble. You will never laugh in the future. You should think about it carefully. Maybe what I said is wrong. This is just my suggestion. What you should do depends on yourself. If you really can’t let go, just continue to be with him. Don’t worry about it. It’s your own choice. Even if your head is broken and bleeding, you must keep going