How to break the deadlock after being isolated by roommates?

Seeing this question reminds me of the time when I was isolated by my roommates in college. In fact, people need sincere communication.

To tell the truth, actually, when I first went to college, I was a girl with special blx, insecurity and true temperament. Because of the lack of security, I sometimes lose my temper for no reason, and get along with roommates who have different views and are more serious in love, which leads to my being gradually isolated by roommates.

In fact, now that I think about it, I don't like this personality either. How can others get along with you happily? But when I was isolated at first, my mood simply fell to a low point. No matter what you do, you are lonely. What you are most afraid of is hearing them talking and laughing in the dormitory when you are curled up in the corner.

However, people are social animals after all. Being isolated for a long time will inevitably produce a feeling of despair, like being abandoned by the world. Later, a class organized an activity. I don't know. When I returned to the dormitory, my roommate Xiao B was still waiting for me in the dormitory, and my heart was suddenly melted by this long-lost touch.

I don't think I should be so opinionated anymore, because a person is really unhappy, but should actively change myself, integrate into the collective, and try to make them accept me again.

In the past, when my roommates discussed, I never disdained to express my opinions, just bowed my head and did my own thing or chose to escape from the dormitory, but gradually I began to take the initiative to participate in the discussion. I put away blx to make myself simple and easy-going. Gradually, I found that they were not so difficult to get along with.

Later, I learned that they were interested in getting along with me, but I kept my pericardium too tight and couldn't find their kindness, which led to this deadlock.

Someone told me before that when one or two people say you are not good, maybe you are not really bad. But if everyone thinks you are bad and chooses to isolate you, maybe you really have a reason.

Therefore, in order to break this isolated deadlock, we must first find the reasons from ourselves. Dormitory is a collective, and getting along with others needs a running-in process. We should put away our sharpness and consider others.

In addition, you must know how to share. In fact, collective life is also a process of sharing, even if it is only snacks, jokes and experiences. Only sharing can produce * * * sound and pull each other's hearts far away.

Roommates are a wonderful fate. In the process of getting along with roommates, each of us will learn a lot, so we should cherish our friendship.