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What should I do if I quarrel with my father and he ignores me for three days?

I think reconciliation is the correct way to deal with it. Dad's image in the eyes of the world will always be tall and stalwart. In fact, Dad is also the most reasonable. Angry with his children is actually at that point in time. After that, it will be fine, except that you take the initiative to make peace, so you might as well try and make peace.

Father is one of the important roles in the family, and it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions with his father in life, which will lead to a quarrel. At this time, as a child, he should do so.

first, calm down. When there is a quarrel, it shows that both sides are not calm. At this time, the first thing children should do is to calm down and not say anything on a whim. Doing so not only hurts the father, but also destroys the feelings between the father and the children.

second, then empathy. After you calm down, you should think about whose fault it is. If no one is right or wrong, look at this problem from the perspective of your father, imagine what you would do if you were your father, and experience your father's feelings.

Third, tell your heart to your father. When I was young, I often lacked sufficient communication because I looked down on my father. When I was mature, I discovered what my father had done. If I were myself, I would have done the same. Therefore, communication is an important basis for reducing contradictions. Tell your father how you feel and bow your head to admit your mistake when necessary. Filial piety is a good medicine to solve family problems.

fourth, don't cry when you speak your mind. Because the truth will be more or less offensive or hurtful, and it will be more boring if it is said in tears. Stand up straight, speak righteously, be neither humble nor supercilious, and calmly express your inner thoughts on an equal footing with your father, which is more convincing.

5. After speaking his mind, it means that these methods are effective if his father can talk to himself peacefully. If you are still angry, you can only wait for this matter to cool down or simply forget it. Since things can't be solved, you can't always take it to heart and affect your mood, so forgetting is also a way to deal with contradictions.

There are many ways to forget, and the most common one is to divert attention. We can do something we like or are interested in, so as to put all those unpleasant things behind us.