A person, travel-stained, lives in this world and lives for someone who likes himself.

Mo Yan said: A person who lives in this world should live for someone who likes him. This is the best attitude. Don't throw happiness on someone who doesn't like you, and then forget happiness on someone who likes you.

I have been busy for the first two days of the new year. For a moment, I felt that I didn't live for myself. People, there is no difference between joining the WTO and being born. As for the middle, each has its own way of living. I am like a puppet, led by my soul, and my body is trying to cater to me.

Let's talk about an interesting soul. At the end of last year, I happened to meet President Hu, who retired from Chizhou, and found it particularly interesting. At noon on New Year's Day, we met again. After three rounds of drinking, President Hu was ruddy and offered to sing a song for everyone. When I turned on the music, I realized that it was the hottest song last year, "The Shepherd of Cocoto Sea".

President Hu said a few words to the music. To be honest, it's not so good. However, the following story made me feel ashamed in an instant. What President Hu sang was not a song, but an unforgettable love.

After the singing, President Hu took the initiative to talk about the past. He said that when he was in college, the girl he liked was very beautiful. They dated for a period of time, and the female classmate had a good family and always helped him materially, intentionally or unintentionally. And he was just a poor boy who came out of the mountains, poor and self-abased, and finally on the eve of graduation, the two parted ways. The girl went to Guangzhou and he went back to his hometown. Since then, this has been most of his life. Until a few years ago, the magic of WeChat friends circle linked the two together.

Speaking of this, President Hu is particularly excited. He said that his wife died a few years ago and his heart was empty. So he made the biggest decision in his life and went to Guangzhou to meet his first love. The female classmate personally drove to the airport to meet him and buy him clothes. They spent the best three days of their lives together. Today, the two are still good friends and greet each other every day. After that, I took out the photos from my mobile phone and showed my dress, which showed my happiness at a glance.

Therefore, a person's experience is the most precious spiritual wealth of this person. No matter whether we are poor or rich, what really touches us is the true love when we have nothing, the persistence when we are seriously ill, the persistence when we are suffering from natural disasters and man-made disasters, and the hospice care before dying.

Perhaps, the articles of middle-aged people explain too many philosophies of life, which makes people feel the same after reading them. In fact, this is not negative, nor is it resistance, nor is it decadent. It is the transparency and openness of people who have experienced vicissitudes and looked at the world coldly.

In this world, people without ideas and courage are more terrible than poverty. It is difficult for people at the bottom to jump out of their inherent thinking. For example, yesterday, I talked about a calligrapher. Some people were sure, and some people scoffed at it. The reason was that they had no education, but they just worshipped a good teacher. I originally wanted to say that it is not unreasonable for a famous teacher to be an apprentice, because a famous teacher does not accept ordinary apprentices at all, and if he can be recognized by a famous teacher, he is not an ordinary person. The upper class sedan chair each other, while the lower class denigrates each other. Everyone is inferior, why should we go up? Therefore, it is very important to choose the circle that suits you. There is no need to say more about the wrong person.

When people reach middle age, they have experienced a lot, and some of them are painful. They can't say, can't say, can't say; Some experiences can't be said, can't be said, and there is nowhere to say. Silence is not nothing to say, but a long story. I can't hold it any longer, so I'll lend you a glass of hard liquor to tell my story!