My 3-year-old sister was beaten by 1 year-old brother, and my father's education method was angered by netizens. How did my father educate him?

Dad told his sister to fight back, telling her that she must fight back when she is bullied in the future, even if she is a younger brother, but the other party can't take the initiative to hit people unless she does. Some netizens exposed such a video on this platform. We can see a boy suddenly hit his sister twice while eating. At first, parents didn't seem to care. After all, it is inevitable for children to fight directly, but I didn't expect my brother to push his luck and want to continue hitting his sister, but my sister was not prepared to fight back.

I believe that many parents will stop their younger brother's behavior when they encounter such a thing and tell their sisters to let go of their younger brother. The seemingly perfect treatment has many disadvantages. The parents in the video directly educate her sister to fight back and tell her that others can't take the initiative to hit people before they do it. My brother was wronged after being beaten by his sister and burst into tears. At this time, the child's father began to educate his younger brother not to hit people casually. I believe this should be the most profound way to educate him.

In fact, many families in China have the inherent thinking of preferring boys to girls or giving way to small ones, but this way is not conducive to children's growth. Brothers and sisters may resent being bullied for a long time, hold their heads high in front of others and feel inferior. Brothers and sisters can easily become more and more willful because of long-term connivance. Can they be so tolerant when they enter the society in the future? Of course not. Instead of waiting for someone to give you a lesson, teach it yourself.

Therefore, my father's education method has been praised and imitated by many netizens, which not only protects my sister but also educates my brother. This is killing two birds with one stone. Sometimes it is not very effective to treat children with lip service alone. Let children feel it by themselves, so that they can have a deeper memory. But we must also ensure the safety of children, otherwise both body and mind may be hurt, and the loss outweighs the gain.