I'll speak for myself.

Life is self-crossing, everything is bitter, only self-crossing. In mcfaul's work The Ferry Man, a question is raised: If life is a lonely river, who will be the ferryman of your soul? There is no soul ferryman in social life. If there is a big soul ferryman, it can only be yourself.

Once upon a time, there was a young man whose stomach was full of troubles and worries. He urgently needed to find a solution to his troubles, so he often went for a walk in the mountains. But his troubles still exist.

One day at the foot of the mountain, I met a brave man who was herding sheep with a dog. He thought he was happy, so he helped him herd sheep, but he was not happy.

A hook is better than a fish, so he went fishing again. He went to the pond and saw an old man. Before he could talk to him, the old man talked to him. Young man, do you fish like me? If it's the same, your distress will be gone, but after he tried for a while, he was even more distressed, so fishing didn't dispel his distress.

Finally, there was no way out, so I went home and slept for a day regardless. The whole body and mind feel ethereal, and the body is as light as catkins flying all over the sky. At this time, the Buddha came to his side.

Aren't you happy, my child? Yes, I'm very upset. Have you found anyone else or a way to relieve your distress? Yes, but it didn't solve my distress, but made it worse.

Buddha, asked softly, "Did someone tie your hands and feet?"

Don't!

Since there isn't, what relief do you want?

Young people suddenly became enlightened, and no one tied me at all. Why bother?

Thinking of this, the young man wants to leave the Buddha. Turning around, I saw a piece of Wang Yang sea with only one boat on it. When he stepped on the boat, there was no ferryman, only himself, and he rowed the boat. At this time, Wang Yang became land, and young children woke up from their dreams.

No matter the distress of life, the happiness of life, or the setbacks and difficulties, in fact, no one will help you solve, ferry, solve, only you ferry, if you don't save yourself, others can't save you.