Praise her boyfriend for being excellent.

In love, how to praise your boyfriend so that he can't refuse your request?

In fact, every boy has a little princess in his heart, and he will be ecstatic when praised.

Then at this time, if you point out his mistakes or guide him to do something you want him to do, he will be more cooperative and agree.

Boys are not all rough men, so take care of their girlish hearts occasionally.

Praise them more, which will better adjust your feelings.

But praise requires skill, otherwise it will make people feel uncomfortable or insincere.

First, guide each other in an approved way. How to praise a boy to make him more willing to pay for you?

The best way is your recognition and encouragement to boys.

For example, if a boy cooks a delicious dinner, you can say to him, "Your cooking is delicious! I didn't know you had such a good craft. "

This sentence is a feedback to boys.

This will make him feel that giving is very valuable. Just like if you have a puppy, every time you feed it, it will be spoiled and sold to you, so you are more willing to feed it. In fact, it is a truth.

After this sentence, you should add: "You cook so well that my mouth is awkward. What if I don't like other people's cooking? "

Or, you can tell him that you are so good at cooking, will you cook for me often in the future?

After the meaning of this sentence is recognized by the other party, it shows the demand for him.

This kind of praise is a gentle way of praise, but it doesn't mean that the other party will develop in the direction you expected after receiving this psychological suggestion, even if he happily promised you:

"Well, I will cook for you every day in the future."

But as it turns out, 80% of the boys just stay in verbal pleasure and don't really do it.

Therefore, you should give him some guidance in the future, just like us, and show patience when training boyfriends and pets.

You can't expect him to form a habit by giving a demonstration. Habits can only be formed by your repeated guidance and hints.

In the future, if you want to date/eat, and the boy asks your opinion,

You can ask a boy, "Honey, I want to eat your cooking." When making such a request, especially at the beginning of your relationship, if nothing unexpected happens, the other party will be willing to accept your suggestion.

After repeating it several times, it will become a habit for boys to cook for you, and it will become a natural thing in future life and getting along.

And how do boys keep this habit and continue it?

That is to maintain this recognition and praise, give boys the motivation to stick to it, and let them know that what they are doing is valuable and worthwhile. In addition to letting boys cook for you, this method can also be used in many places, such as the other party doing something that makes you very moved, such as the other party taking care of you very intimately.

In short, you can use this method to guide the other person to do something positive. The process of identification and guidance is to express identification first, then express demand, and then, in the future, put forward demand.

Finally, make long-term and stable recognition and praise on each other.

Second, raise the price of the other party appropriately.

For boys, improving their status appropriately is a strong psychological hint, which will make them feel respected, admired and relied on. If he wants to be a prince, you should crown him to satisfy his inner vanity.

For example, he talks to you about a little achievement at work, or about his shining experience and past. Or something that you think is boring but important to him, such as winning a bet with a friend. Or your favorite team won the game and so on.

Whether you are interested or not, give him a feeling of admiration. You can praise him for being awesome. After all, my boyfriend has a good eye. So you've had this experience before, and I've never experienced it before.

But don't just pay an absent-minded compliment. At the same time, you should make the other person feel that you are really curious and interested in what he says.

Ask him more details, let him get it off his chest, and then you should concentrate while listening to his Barabara. At the same time, constant praise and encouragement.

But when praising, we should pay attention to some misunderstandings, that is to say, don't praise boys with vague adjectives as mentioned before. For example, you are great. You're good at this.

In the long run, it will definitely cause discomfort to boys. You should describe as many details as possible, for example. When talking about male stars with your boyfriend, don't say, "I think you are much better looking than him." This sentence is very vague, you have to be more specific.

For example, I think your eyes are more divine than him, or your nose is more stereoscopic than him, and so on.

You can even deliberately expose some of his defects.

For example, you can tell him that I think your nose is much more stereoscopic than his. But your chin is not as angular as his. But on the whole, I think you are much more tolerant than him. This real analysis really points out the details. This is more convincing to the other party.

3. Pay attention to your expression. Whenever you say a sentence, people will judge your singing level by combining the content, voice, facial expression and body movements, that is, whether you say this sentence is your true will.

Therefore, no matter how positive your language is, your expression is inadvertently revealed.