Is it better to find a girlfriend in the countryside or in the city?

Never find a countryman. I tell you responsibly with my classmates' personal experience.

Family education, personality problems, moral problems and vision problems are not mentioned for the time being, because everyone has their own opinions, and these are not the most important.

I just said that marriage is a hurdle. There are many customs and bad habits in the countryside, which I don't understand myself.

First of all, the bride price is tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands. Of course, it doesn't cost money, but don't blame me for not being sensible. I haven't heard of any friends and classmates who want to find a rural daughter-in-law who doesn't want a bride price. The gift of a suite 10 to 200,000 is sky-high for the ordinary income of a city, not to mention higher. I'm sure you can see the gifts and houses I mentioned when you watch the news. There is no specified size. I believe that the down payment of a house is at least about 20W, and the bride price is about 50W. Including the wedding expenses and expenses, it is about 60W, which is almost impossible for you to earn in your twenties. If your family is not very rich, you can almost empty your savings. In addition, people in rural areas get married very early. If you want to put it off until you are 30, have a stable career and get married. This is basically impossible.

According to the census data of 20 15 years, the population with millions of assets in China is only about 100W, that is to say, about 0.0 1% or even lower proportion is people or families who don't have a headache about rural wedding expenses, that is, 99.99% or even higher proportion.

Well, if you don't care about the above conditions, you care, or your family can bear it, then the other two reasons will make you more headache.

First, if you are in your thirties and have made small achievements in your career, then you have to bear the work problems, salary problems and contacts of the whole family of rural girls. Your daughter-in-law's parents, relatives and neighbors will pin their hopes on you, while most farmers in rural areas are family-centered, and your career has made small achievements, so the proportion of your life focus on your career will greatly increase, so your daughter-in-law's.

I saw it with my own eyes. A man with a small career and millions of companies was dragged down by his wife's family, and this is not a case.

Second, as I said above, most of the quarrels between you and your daughter-in-law are family-centered. If you quarrel with your daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law family will definitely interfere and participate. The quarrel between husband and wife is a trivial matter. Parents' participation will definitely turn a small matter into a major event. I don't need to say more about the example of parents fighting and then divorcing. There will be so many examples around you.

Tell you that the above points are the real experiences of my friends and classmates. I am 30 years old, and almost all my friends have found rural girls as wives. Nine out of 65,438+00 people are divorced.