My wife is critical of my father.

I am a shy, self-abased, confident and inarticulate person. My family has been poor since childhood.

I didn't graduate from junior high school, so I worked outside with people in the village, got to know many people outside, saw the wonderful world outside, and felt the indifference and helplessness of reality. I changed from a teenager to a strong young man.

Since I have the decoration skills, I have also met many young women. Many young women saw that I was handsome and took the initiative to be nice to me ... and talked about several girls, but mentioned marriage and bride price.

I'm at a loss. I also made some money, but I always played cards with my colleagues. I played cards and drank when I was free, and I lost a lot of money.

Now that I'm in my twenties, I'm beginning to worry. My parents are anxious, and I haven't saved any money. I once met two of the best girls who said they didn't want my bride price, and I didn't cherish it. I really regret it now. I secretly made up my mind not to gamble, play cards or play Cai tickets from now on.

Work hard to make money. At the age of 30, the boss hired several coolies on the construction site. They are also in their twenties.

She is also very picky, and he despises ordinary boys. As I grow older, I am also anxious to find a husband. Soon we got married. When I got married, it was very simple, and it only cost more than 20 thousand. I treated my relatives to a meal.

I feel a little guilty with my wife. She is a China student in Grade One, and I didn't graduate from junior high school. His family conditions are superior, and mine is a poor family.

After marriage, we have a son and a daughter. My wife is very kind to me and takes care of me, but she is like a stranger to my parents and never calls them.

I can get through all this, because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in many families is not very harmonious, and many families are not used to calling their wives husband and parents.

She is stubborn and unfilial to the elderly. I have a way to deal with it. Every time I visit her parents during the Chinese New Year holiday, I always give her parents hundreds of dollars as lucky money or pocket money.

His parents said I was filial and a good son-in-law. But his parents don't want my money. They have money at home.

Once my father told me that he was ill and didn't get up for several days. The three-year-old daughter came to her father's bed with a bowl of rice: "Grandpa, it's time to eat." Father was surprised, angry and funny. Father asked his granddaughter who taught you? My granddaughter said my mother taught me. In those days, my mother visited her relatives again.

On New Year's Eve, I gave my father 1000 yuan, and I whispered in his ear. Father nodded happily. A family composed of parents, wife, son and daughter, a family of six around a large table eating a sumptuous dinner ... When the banquet was coming to an end, my father quickly jumped in front of me and raised his voice and said, "Son, your mother and I are very happy with the New Year's Eve dinner today. Your mother and I saved 5,000 yuan as temporary workers, raising chickens and ducks and selling waste products. My parents didn't spend their lives for their children, so I am your only son. " Pretending to be surprised, I pushed away the brand-new banknotes handed by my father. Father said, "I can still make money." You can pay me back when I can't walk. " I accept 300 yuan.

Then my father gave my daughter 200 yuan. When the daughter got the money, she quickly said, "Thank you, Grandpa".

The son also received 200 yuan from his father and said happily, "Thank you, Grandpa".

When my father came to my wife, he gave her 300 yuan money. My wife only took 100, and the other 200 was for you two to buy fried rice.

But I just didn't pronounce the word mom and dad, and my mouth was too hard. After the new year, I followed the villagers to work at the construction site. Take out 1/4 of your salary every month and deposit it in the bank, and give the remaining 3/4 to your wife. I don't smoke, drink or blog.

Now my son 10 is over 0 years old. When I often call my son, I repeatedly tell him that your mother is not filial to grandparents, so you must be filial to grandparents. If you are not filial to your grandparents, I will divorce your mother.

My son said on the phone, I know my mother's temper. Her stubbornness is too stubborn. You can't change her and I can't change her. When I grow up, I will be more filial to my grandparents. My sister also knows that my mother is not good to my grandparents.

Thanks to parents, this is the result of their continuous education. When my wife and I go to work, my parents take care of the children. Mom helps them with laundry and cooking, and dad teaches them to write, tell stories, play flute and erhu, take them to the streets to play, and buy snacks for them to eat ... all these have formed a deep friendship for their grandchildren.

I find it difficult for many families to live in harmony. Many families have wives who are not filial to their parents-in-law. Many families are full of contradictions because their wives are not filial to the elderly, and it is difficult to have a happy marriage and maintain it for a long time; This is also one of the reasons why many families divorce.

Calm thinking, in the eyes of my wife, my husband's parents are my husband's parents, not mine. Why should I be filial to them? Many couples get divorced because of such unfilial parents. Is there no other way than divorce? Of course there is.

1. I also want to save some private money properly to prevent family conflicts and use it as operating funds for litigation. Or keep separate accounts.

I should also be more filial to his parents. How thoughtful.

I care about my parents, which is necessary and proper. You can also set an example for your children, and at the same time, you should educate your children to be more filial to the elderly and grandparents.

I also often give money to my parents. Sometimes I will give money to my parents specially, and my parents will take my money to their grandchildren to blend their feelings.

Don't call me mom and dad when I'm dead. Not filial to his wife. You don't need to do too much education and teaching, you can only change yourself with your own practical actions and be more filial to your parents. And teach children how to be filial to their grandparents.

6. If the wife is not filial to the elderly, many families will divorce, but for the sake of children, it is inseparable.