The older you get, the fewer your smiles become. How do you lose your happiness?

Let me tell you my point of view. A person's life span is only about 30,000 days, and he experiences the natural laws of birth, old age, illness, and death.

In childhood, because I knew too little about things, I did not form my own "three views", and I did not even need to know why I was alive. Before school age, it is basically about eating, sleeping, and having fun. There is no need to think about any problems and there is no pressure. There are no worries, so childhood is the happiest and worry-free stage in life.

When I go to kindergarten or elementary school, I feel a little stressed because I have to study and take exams, so I seem to be less happy than before.

After entering middle school, although you do not need to work to earn money, the pressure to study is increasing day by day, especially before the college entrance examination. There is no happiness at this stage.

Although the study pressure has been reduced after being admitted to college, you have to consider future employment, marriage and starting a family. If the family background is good, the pressure will be relatively better. In particular, children from the middle and lower classes will feel a lot of pressure. They need to apply for jobs by themselves, take out loans for houses, etc. So I feel less happy than before.

Although they have income after working, due to lack of work experience and the infighting in the workplace, many people will feel uncomfortable or confused, and their happiness will be further reduced.

After getting married and having children, I am in a state of complete confusion. All kinds of pressures are pouring in. I feel tired and helpless.

When children get older, they no longer need their own help, but their bodies have already gone downhill, diseases will bother them all the time, and pain begins to follow them.

In fact, happiness is first of all a state of mind. People's life is destined to not be smooth sailing, but happiness is also accompanied by distress. As long as you look at these problems with a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, and face the gains and losses correctly, you will find that life is actually happier than troubled. It’s not that the older you get, the less happy you are. The body represents the material on this side, and the heart represents the spiritual world on the other side. Only when the body and mind are harmonious and balanced can people gain freedom and joy