My mother-in-law is always nagging about trifles. What should I do?

As the saying goes; There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Moreover, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a headache. When I was very young, I heard such a sentence: the more my mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the closer she is; The more a mother-in-law looks at her daughter-in-law, the angrier she gets. When I was a child, I didn't quite understand why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was always bad. I didn't understand something until I grew up.

Although I'm not married, let alone the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my brothers and sisters are married and I've heard a lot. Just like before my sister got married, she had a very good relationship with her mother-in-law. I still remember when they came to our house, on the way to the restaurant, my sister and her mother-in-law walked arm in arm, and outsiders thought it was mother and daughter! At that time, I thought it might be that people's ideas were different from before, and now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is better. Later, the facts told me that this was indeed a problem.

Shortly after they got married, my sister and her mother-in-law didn't get along very well. Although they didn't quarrel on the surface, they had a lot of dissatisfaction in their hearts. In this way, they still don't live together. It is conceivable that there will be many contradictions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live together.

After my brother got married, I understood what my husband's family thought of his daughter-in-law. Although I have to say that my sister-in-law is very clever, she still can't get the favor of menstruation. But my aunt said nothing. On the surface, everyone is a family. After all, there are not many days to meet each other in a year, so there is no need to make trouble.

So the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to get along with. She is always nagging, but we young people try to listen and don't talk. If you really can't help but say it, then dating is a quarrel and you need to be mentally prepared.