A woman's greatest blessing: meeting a responsible man

A woman's greatest blessing: meeting a responsible man

Text/Nuannuan

When I was young, I didn't understand love and thought I was in love. Getting a license and getting married is an everlasting promise, that is, waiting for a person for a lifetime. So loyalty is engraved in the heart, and shackles are branded in the soul. No matter how miserable the rest of my life is, I decided not to leave.

In busy and trivial days, you are willing to give your youth to life, and write the music of marriage with full love, loyalty and no regrets. However, one day, the truth tells you that how loyal you are, how desperate you are. You spread out your rough hands, dressed in cheap clothes, and hugged your little son who was learning English. In the face of the disgusted and impatient eyes of a well-dressed husband, you are still swallowing your inner desolation and injustice, deceiving yourself and saying: You must be mistaken. Touching the child's immature face and looking at those eyes full of innocence and trust expectation, you cried so sadly for the first time, showing unwillingness in grievances and malice in resentment. Everything tells you it's not worth it!

You once had the idea of never giving up. You know, a man who can't even control his lower body is a despicable animal without humanity. You really can't stand living with animals.

But in general, women are more out of love for their children and have a sense of responsibility and mission. For life, full of awe and pity. Pregnant in October, the love for the baby has already been integrated into the blood and bone marrow, and the baby's breathing will affect the nerves of maternal love. Therefore, no matter how bad the marriage is, no matter how promiscuous the husband is, a woman who is a mother will choose to endure it again, with tears, pain and hatred. Good friend Shuer is one of them. A few times, she has made up her mind to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce, but before going out, she saw one side trying to break away from the nanny's arms and crying at the top of her lungs for her mother's son, and the other side was a man with a full face of desire, living happily with San Xiao, without fatherly love and shame. She knew she could walk away, but her son would ruin his life because of a pair of irresponsible parents.

So, Shuer later talked about it. She said: Men and women, before giving birth to children, must ask themselves whether you can love and protect your children as much as you can, rain or shine. If you can't, don't abandon your family and children in order to satisfy your lower body's desires for a while.

We admit that marriage has a shelf life, and nothing can be fresh all the time. It is human instinct to like the new and hate the old. The difference lies in whether you marry a responsible man. A responsible man will choose to leave in the face of temptation. It's not that I don't like fresh blood, it's not that I can't meet something better, but if I choose my wife, I won't touch flowers and plants other than my wife. His wife and children are his destiny and value in this life. Once, the vows of eternal love were not just words, it was a woman's great trust in her youth and happiness!

A friend once said: She will forgive a murderer, but not a man who cheated.

Many male colleagues have also said that they will not marry a woman who promiscuous before marriage, and they will not accept his wife's infidelity after marriage.

It is conceivable that both men and women attach great importance to their emotional loyalty. But it is a pity that some people, driven by desire, will abandon their original intention and the minimum norms of human nature, and only seek temporary pleasure, but at the same time hurt many people, especially those children who call him "dad". Such a man is heartless, worse than an animal!

Very much agree with Li Ka-shing's rhetoric about men; Responsibility is a man's backbone and a man's indomitable spirit. Do what you say, take it well, and bear the consequences if you do something wrong. Whether a man is mature or not depends not on his age, but on how much responsibility he can bear.

? Responsibility reflects a man's maturity; Maturity does not lie in age, nor in the aging of the soul, but tears in eyes can still smile calmly; Is to constantly surpass one's ability in pursuit; It is a profound understanding and responsibility for life, family and society, and it is a kind of calmness and wisdom. A responsible man usually does what he should do well, whether it is career or family. Even without proud achievements, at least he can run a stable and happy life;

In fact, the requirements of this world are not high, especially women, who long for a family and enjoy ordinary happiness. Whether a man can make money, whether he is romantic or not, and whether he has emotional appeal or not. As long as he has a family, a wife and children in his heart, he is willing to do his best to live a hard life; Remember to go home when you go out; No matter how beautiful it is outside, it will not indulge its lust and body. So, this man is a good man.

? Responsibility is a man's backbone and a man's pillar in this world. Now that you are married, you must have a sense of responsibility for your family, your wife and children. Without family consciousness, avoiding the responsibility of raising children and focusing only on their own enjoyment will only make people feel shameless and disgusting.

In the real world, there are many people who have money to learn bad things and cheat women. There are also many men who go home to run wild and beat and scold women casually. They hook up with mistresses, not only without guilt, but also with men who come home to splash their wives and children. Once a woman is mixed with a man with poor quality, she falls into a quagmire; A person's duty is to promise; No matter to my family, friends, career and society, as long as I promise, I will do my best to turn it into reality, fulfill my promise, and make necessary efforts and persist in practicing my promise.

? The responsibility of a man is to take responsibility; Life does not shrink back because of ups and downs, and career is not decadent because of setbacks; A person's duty is courage; What can be done well must be done well, and what cannot be done must have the courage to give up; Adhere to the right, dare to bear the consequences if you are wrong, and do not evade, shirk or make excuses; You should not cry in front of people, especially the opposite sex, to show weakness and gain sympathy from others. This behavior itself is actually a kind of seduction and ambiguity; A responsible man is a man who is not afraid of failure and goes forward bravely; There are many excellent standards for men, such as knowledge, ability and achievement. The better a person is, the more admirable qualities he will have.

An irresponsible man is definitely not a trustworthy man; No matter how superior his innate conditions are, he will not become an outstanding person because of the lack of sense of responsibility. A man may not be very good, but he can't be without responsibility and responsibility, and at the same time he doesn't have many excellent qualities such as loyalty, integrity and courage. Therefore, a responsible man is a real man.

There are many such men around, the worse they are, the more self-righteous they are, and the more ugly they are in front of their wives and children. Such a man, who occasionally meets a blind date woman, will not hesitate to cheat, take it for granted and be shameless. He even proudly shouted in front of his wife: I am loved, who are you?

I really want to say to us girls, if you are not married, please keep your eyes open. For a man's character, we must examine it repeatedly, and don't give your true feelings at will, because the price is too high! A man who doesn't want to give money and love, no matter how good his family is and how handsome he looks, is only worthy of being a slag in front of us. All my life, I have been with my heart!

I also want to tell us women who are women that life is really difficult. We should be more selfish and self-loving. You don't owe anyone except parents and children. He who owes himself loses his dignity. Give love to those who know how to be content, and entrust your heart to men who are willing to hold you in the palm of their hands.

At the beginning of marriage, you can't form a man's bad habit and get used to his bad temper. When giving becomes a habit, your giving is worthless. When you are used to being wronged by yourself, you will live with yourself, eat, wear, live and save, and you will become particularly cheap. Men don't care about you, because there is no burden, married a wife, and a nanny who can make money without spending money. In this world, there is no one but you, a silly wife. If you don't have the financial burden of a rich wife, how can you make men respect and love you?

It is a well-known truth that you will cherish only if you pay!

Some good people are born, and some are trained and cultivated. And this root lies in women's self-love and enough care. The better you are to yourself, the gentler the world and years will be to you. This is good, not selfish disregard for others, but care about your own humanity and soul.

March 8 is coming. May all the good women in the world have a wonderful life, meet good people, be cherished and be blessed! In this life, it has become a beautiful scenery in the years, blooming the most beautiful and unique stamens, fragrant itself and gorgeous the world!