My biological parents don't understand me at all. My parents are good people. There is no doubt about this, but the way of dealing with people is beyond my understanding. I

It seems that your family conflicts are very sharp. In fact, every family has a difficult experience, and your situation is enviable in some families I have met.

In the final analysis, the key to the contradiction is that you are very tired, and your parents can't help you share it, but also make you work harder. So the key to the solution is to find someone to help you share it or ask your parents to stop it.

The former, you can find a part-time job or a nanny or something.

The latter, tell your parents directly that you are really tired, and let them pay a little attention to their living habits.

In fact, if your parents have other houses, they can live separately. As for children, they can be left at their parents' house during the day and brought back at night.