Understanding of life and Buddhism

With the rapid development of mobile Internet and social networks, more and more people will express their opinions on social platforms to vent their emotions and adjust their mood. What kind of conversation is special? The following is my understanding of Buddhism in my life, for you to sort out. Welcome everyone to refer to it, I hope it will help you.

1, the long road of life, we will meet many people and experience many things. No matter what you encounter, you must learn to have a tolerant and sincere heart. We can't change the world and others, but we can change ourselves and change our attitude towards the world and others: indifference and tolerance.

2, the first half of life: don't hesitate; The second half of life: whether you regret it; Live in the moment, seize every opportunity, because opportunities are fleeting, and find a way out for your life! Small things, said humorously; If you are not sure, be cautious; Happy things, reading words; Don't tell everyone about the sad things; Be careful about other people's business; Do your own thing and listen to your own voice; Now, do it; We will talk about the future.

People never pay attention to the complaints of the gyro, but keep pushing it, just to make the gyro turn faster and more stable. No one knows that if there are no bone spurs, the top will fall off. A top can only stand when it is spinning. But the gyro won't notice people's pain, and can only complain about its own misfortune. This gyro will fall off sooner or later, because it doesn't know how to push itself.

I know that flowers bloom and flowers fall, I know that gathering and parting are inevitable, and I know that you and I will bid farewell to our respective worlds. So, when you travel to the north, I completely lost my language. Meeting is not a crime, and knowing each other is right. What is wrong is that you chose to escape, and I chose to persist.

People should control their own desires, not be controlled by them. It is human instinct to pursue comfort and enjoyment, but we should also be temperate. No matter what you pursue, enough is enough. No matter what shoes you buy, it is the most important thing to fit. Desire is like water. When it is right, it will overflow. The reason why we live tired is often because we mistake our desires for our needs, making ourselves exhausted and getting deeper and deeper.

6. In the desert, there is only one person between heaven and earth, which is called loneliness. Walking in the bustling crowd, flipping through the phone book but never dialing a number is called loneliness. Loneliness is a state, and loneliness is a state of mind. Every tear is lonely or fragile, and every smile is sad or happy. I know better than anyone.

7. Smart women know what they want and what they should and shouldn't do. I am not proud of showing off my education and knowledge, but pay more attention to application. Smart women know how to distinguish men and will not waste their efforts on unworthy men. If you have something that others don't have, and you know what others don't know, you will do what others won't do, then please be prepared: others will criticize you.

8. Some people don't need to meet again. Most of them are passers-by. They smile when they break up. We all have our own lives. Do not care about the noise or loneliness around you. Many familiar or unfamiliar faces have nothing to do with you. Without motivation, life will not change. Our fault is that we always want to get involved with irrelevant people, indulge in our own human relations, and only let our sighs and feelings pale the years and wait.

9. The greatest happiness in life is sometimes having someone who knows you. Smile is spring breeze, sunshine, an exciting world, because of warmth; A trust is a concern, a hope, a belief, because you know; A kind of grip, without words or explanation, is a kind of self-confidence, a kind of courage and a powerful force, because of sincerity.

10, a man who leaves me in the middle of the road will also give up on me at any fork in life. So, I turned around, with the most elegant gesture, calmly and calmly, from your side walk on by, to the other side ... After turning around with you, I would like to be a simple and gentle woman, a loyal and steady man, and I would like to wait for the shore of time as early as possible, with 3,000 weak waters. From then on, hold your hand and grow old with your son.

1 1, life is a simple trajectory, and every story is interpreted with heart, which is a dull repetition. In fact, there is nothing wrong with being naive. People will grow up one day, so why not mature too early and lose it too early. When you do it right, no one will remember; When doing something wrong, even breathing is wrong.

12, it is difficult to get up at six o'clock, recite words, and calm down ... but there are always some people who can get up at five o'clock, recite six lessons a day, and patiently finish reading a book. No one has super powers, but they can decide what to do in a day. You think there is no road, but the fact is that the road may be just a little ahead. People who are better than themselves are working hard. What reason do we have to stop?

13, think more, think more, listen more, watch more, and be careful. The advantage of doing this is to make yourself less regretful. Before we do something, we should consider the consequences. When we do something, we should think far and be cautious again, so as to avoid hurting others and reduce future regrets. It's important to use your head when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things.

14, always quiet as water, not surprised when things change, but also not surprised. In this life, as long as my heart is as light as a chrysanthemum and my reputation is remarkable, I will keep it and collect it; Life, let nature take its course, take a dim view, and your life will be full of sunshine, happiness and brilliance.

15, don't wait until you are lonely to think of your friends; Don't wait to be happy to smile; Don't wait for others to praise you before you believe in yourself; Don't wait to say goodbye to regret meeting; Don't wait for failure to think of advice; Don't wait until you are terminally ill and dying to realize the fragility of life; Life does not sell round-trip tickets, please cherish the happiness now!

16, easy to satisfy, more vulnerable; There is always a feeling of being ignored; Pay far more than you get; Very stubborn, do not know how to give up; Laugh happily in front of others, but feel lonely when you are alone; Quiet in front of strangers, but crazy in front of friends; Sitting in front of the computer, I don't know what to do, but I don't want to turn it off; Don't like waiting, but always wait.

17, no matter how time flies, no matter how ordinary life is. For this world, we are just an ordinary person, such as grass to the brilliant spring, like a stream to the vast sea, and more like white clouds to the boundless blue sky ... After all, few people shake the world, and most people can only walk out of the ordinary, but they are willing to live silently in the ordinary. Therefore, insipid is the mainstream of our life.

18, 7 things that need to be put down in life ① Let go of the pressure-whether you are tired or not depends on your mentality; 2 Let go of your troubles-happiness is actually very simple; 3 put down inferiority complex-delete inferiority complex from your dictionary; 4 let go of laziness-struggle to change your destiny; ⑤ Let go of narrowness-if the heart is wide, the world will be wide; 6. Let go of complaining-it is better to work hard than to complain; ⑦ Let go of hesitation-take immediate action and have unlimited success;

19, some people like you, some people hate you, some people label you, and some people sneer at you. I used to find that friction would refute, but now I find that prejudice is far deeper than I thought. Grief is natural, and sorrow is always there. More commonly, it is not understood. Don't explain too much. Words can't change anyone's opinion of you. Others love or hate, and choose their own way to live an irreplaceable life.

20. People always want to be plain and peaceful, and no one wants the experience of torture. But that's not why I'm here. As a passive bearer and don't want to compromise, then take out your wisdom, turn decay into magic, and life will be better because of it. Although it is forced, it is better than doing nothing. Playing the right hand is also precious.

2 1, you can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

22. When recalling the past, you smiled, which means that you have grown up; When you recall the past, you cry, which means you are mature; When recalling the past, you are indifferent, which shows that you are sophisticated; When you recall the past, you feel sorry, indicating that you are helpless; When you recall the past, you are calm, which means you are old.

23. Some people never know their life and life. Such people think that living is just a normal state. They can't see their hearts, they are people who cover up their hearts. They have no understanding of life, and such people are called' mediocrity'. Because I can't see my heart, I lack the ability to feel the world, but I live in numbness. If life is a human journey, then this kind of person is a wanderer on this trip.

24, don't care, the ultimate embodiment is a kind of cultivation, those who care about everything with others, think they are very smart, in fact, they are very smart and do big stupid things. And I don't care, it's a struggle, a inaction, and endless fun! Carelessness is not escapism, indifference, spiritual decadence and passive seclusion after seeing through the world of mortals; Not indifferent to everything.

25. Walking at dusk, after passing the cherry blossom forest, I saw the pink petals still fluttering. It suddenly occurred to me that this is the most enjoyable flower. Because it died young. Like some one-night stand. There is no possibility of deterioration. So leave a lifetime of memories. Maybe it's sadness. But it is beautiful.

26. The road of life is a difficult journey and climb from birth to death. The road is difficult, things are difficult to do, and it is even harder to be a man. In the meantime, it is difficult for good people to do it, but the wicked can't. To be an excellent person, you will bear the inner pressure and tell yourself that if you are perfect and win the praise of the society, it is hard to give up. To be a villain, we must resist the condemnation of conscience, social exclusion, internal and external attacks and destroy everything in life.

27. The more impermanent the moment, the more loudly I say what I love, cherish and thank. Because no one knows whether we will have a chance to talk tomorrow. The more impermanent the moment, the more we should eat well, sleep well and be happy, because no one knows whether we will have a chance to laugh and be happy tomorrow. Live every day as if it were your last. When that moment comes, at least you can say that I am worthy of myself.

28. Irish marriage is not allowed to divorce, but you can choose the fixed number of years between 1 and 100. If you don't renew it, you will automatically divorce, but the shorter the time, the higher the cost. The registration fee for 1 year is equivalent to more than RMB 20,000, and only 6 yuan money is needed for1year. Choosing a year means that you don't know anything about marriage, and you will be given a thick marriage book to study, while choosing 100 only has a piece of paper that simply says: I wish you a long life together. How many years of marriage will you choose?

29. Gratitude is a cultural accomplishment, an ideological realm, an attitude towards life and a social responsibility.

30. If a man treats you generally now, don't expect him to treat you better after marriage. His best moments for you must be the pursuit period and the love period. If you are still not satisfied with him in these two periods, you should think it over.

3 1. Life is a long journey. Don't waste time waiting for those who don't want to walk hand in hand with you.

32. You stumbled and ended up with this injury, just as the residual makeup of youth.

33. Don't talk about other colleagues in front of colleagues, because you are all in the same boat; Don't slander colleagues in front of the boss, because the boss is far smarter than you; Don't express your dissatisfaction with your boss in front of colleagues, because this is the best opportunity for him to express his loyalty; Don't complain about your boss in front of the big boss, because the benefits of their cooperation far outweigh the benefits of cooperating with you.

34. If a person is old and finds that his life is dull and there are no good memories to move him, then his life is doomed to failure. Too many people in the world are so mediocre all their lives. If being a bad guy can change all this, well, I'll do it. If I do, my life is destined to be much more exciting and exciting than ordinary people.

35. Life is like a maze. We spend the first half of our lives looking for the entrance and the second half looking for the exit. Life is not about compromise. The farther back, the smaller the breathing space. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be from you.

Don't forget your innovative spirit, so as to achieve your ultimate goal. Life is an experience. If a person's thoughts are transparent, then he will be enlightened in his actions and in his heart. He will have desire but not persistence, and he will live freely. People who are prepared for danger in times of peace have a peaceful heart, bluer clouds and more secluded boats.

37. Time has passed. Life has two wings, one is beauty, the other is pain. People always ignore pain in prosperity, and only in painful days can they shout out the truest voice in their hearts. After a long walk, I saw more scenery in my life. After listening to a song, I tasted a taste of love in my emotional struggle; After experiencing some things, I understand some people's smiles at my mouth.

Don't underestimate any moment, every minute may be a turning point in life. Just like some people appear, late or early, all fate will be different. In a sense, everyone in your life is the right person. Their appearance has nothing to do with right or wrong, but is sent by heaven to help us grow up.

39. People who don't understand you will love you in the way they need. People who know you will love you in the way you need. Therefore, people who don't understand you often get twice the result with half the effort. He loves hard, and you suffer. People who know you often get twice the result with half the effort. They love you freely and you are happy. In the world of two people, understanding is more difficult than love. So, let people who can understand you love you.

40. Happiness means having a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfactory job, a family who loves you deeply and a group of reliable friends. Gratitude is the first priority of happiness, because people who don't know how to be grateful will never be happy.

4 1. If the memory becomes fragments, it is because it is full of love and scars. Life is like this, caring, caring, free and limited; Looking back from a distance, it is also vivid and beautiful; There are people you love and love, things you like and things you need to do, people who care about you and people you care about; A person's life is short. Make yourself happy and get drunk once in a while.

42. Urgent, speak slowly; Major events should be made clear; Small things, said humorously; If you are not sure, be cautious; Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen; Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do; Hurtful words can't be said; Happy things, depending on the occasion; Don't tell everyone about the sad things; Be careful about other people's business; Do your own thing and listen to your own voice; Now, do it; We will talk about the future.

43. Happiness is not to get more, but to care less-people who live in confusion are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. -sober people look too real, look too real, and life will be full of troubles. Confused people don't care much. Although life is simple and rough, they find the great taste of life.

44, life is alive, destined to suffer a lot of grievances. And the more successful a person is, the more wronged he will be. Make your life extremely colorful, don't care too much about grievances, and don't let grievances tighten your heart and disturb your life. You must learn to laugh it off, you must learn to be detached from things, and you must learn to convert potential energy. The wise know how to forbear, forgive the people around us, and make us stronger through tolerance.

45. If the world is an ocean, we are all fishermen, catching our prey in the vast life. Everyone is eager to go out to sea in the bright sunshine and sing a song "Fishing boat late" to make the calm days more enjoyable and turbulent. Don't envy other people's fishing areas too much. No matter how much money others catch, it has nothing to do with you. Where the net is cast, there is harvest. To know how to wait and persist, as long as you have no distractions, you will eventually catch the big fish of fate.

46. There are various ways to live life. Some people quit their jobs and went back to their hometown, while others rushed to the examination room at night. Some people are resigned to their fate all their lives, some are unrestrained, some are content with mediocrity, but some have been fighting for it. We don't have to judge what kind of life is a successful life. In fact, any kind of living method is a person's free choice. As long as you start from the heart, live comfortably and contentedly, and seek benevolence, it is called happiness.

47. I would rather stay alone than stay with people who are out of step.

48. Loving someone is actually very simple. He made you cry and let you down. Even so, when he stood there, you would walk over and hold his hand, involuntarily.

49. A person always has a way to go, so go alone bravely.

50. A weak person can't find strong reasons, only weak reasons; And strong people don't need strong reasons.

5 1, kindness is the seed of happiness, and pain is the fruit of evil, but such a simple rule of life is extremely complicated for us to use.

52. Don't dwell on the past, don't fantasize about the future, concentrate and live every minute of the present.

53. Life may deceive you, but you must never deceive life.

54. The greatest tragedy is the conflict between good and good.

55. Loneliness grinds away time bit by bit, so it passes so slowly. The road of life only needs you to walk happily.

56. Life needs some moments. Slow down, calm down, listen to the sound of flowers and see the beauty of leaves blooming. Tell yourself, it's good to be alive.

57. If you want to get married, I'll tell you a very important philosophical quote. You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. Talk about your feelings about life.

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