Life is not easy except life and death. Don't tell everyone everything.

In the adult world, birth and death are bruises. I quite agree with this sentence. When I first saw this sentence, the inner chord was fluctuating. Yes, the adult world is not easy. The so-called adulthood, I think, is that at a certain age, I feel that the burden of responsibility is getting heavier and heavier, and no one tells me. I think this is probably the beginning of a person's growth.

Not all problems need to be told to others, and not all wounds need to be exposed to others. Everyone has different positions and experiences. No one will think from your point of view, because he is not you, only you know yourself best. If you don't understand, why tell people? Maybe some words will feel better only if you say them. In order to dissipate negative energy, you can complain occasionally, but you have to move on after complaining.

There is a saying that a strong person is not without tears, but a person who runs with tears. It's not painless, but even if it hurts, who knows, it needs to be solved in the end. When an adult reaches a certain age, it is not experience and experience, but the self-healing ability after leaving a wound. When you have a wound and others don't know it, even if you know it, you will only sprinkle some salt on your wound. I have heard a saying, what is growth, is to hold your words. Once your words come out, you don't know where they will flow and where they will flow.

Maybe it will flow to the last person you want him to hear. There is a story that a monkey was injured and said everywhere. Every time the monkey said it, an animal said it wanted to see the wound, and the monkey opened the wound once. The monkey said countless times, the wound has no good meaning, but it is getting bigger and bigger. Because every time the wound is exposed, there will be bacteria inside, which will increase the chance of inflammation. Every time you open it, the wound will get bigger and bigger until it gets bigger and bigger, and finally you die.

Although the story is short, it hides the truth and realizes the true meaning of life. There is another story. The donkey came back from ploughing and lay in the fence, panting wearily, and the dog came to see it.

"Oh, old friend, I'm so tired." The donkey complained bitterly, "I really want to have a day off tomorrow."

After saying goodbye, the dog met the cat in the corner. The dog said, "buddy, I just went to see the donkey." This big brother is really tired. He said he wanted to take a day off. It is no wonder that the master has given it too much work. "

The cat turned to the sheep and said, "The donkey complained that his master gave him too much work. He wants to take a day off and stop working tomorrow. "

The sheep said to the chicken, "The donkey doesn't want to work for his master. It complains that it has too much work. Alas, I wonder if other owners are kind to his donkey. "

The chicken said to the pig, "Donkeys don't work for their owners. He wants to visit other owners' houses. Really, the owner doesn't feel sorry for the donkey at all, making it do so many heavy and dirty jobs and beating it roughly with a whip. "

Before dinner, the housewife fed the pig, and the pig came forward and said, "housewife, I want to talk to you." The donkey's brain has been very ill recently, so you should educate it well. He doesn't want to work for his master anymore. He thinks the work given to him by his master is too heavy, too dirty and too tired. It also said that it would leave its owner and find another owner. "

After getting the pig's report, at the dinner table, the housewife said to her master, "The donkey is going to betray you. It wants to change its owner. Betrayal is unforgivable. What are you going to do with it? "

"Treat traitors and kill them without forgiveness!" The master gnashed his teeth.

Poor hardworking and honest donkey, so it is rumored that he was "killed". This story tells us that if you talk less and do more, you will lose. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. Words go bad when passed on, and they are poisonous when you speak.