The daughter-in-law came to the door for the first time and "slapped" at dinner, which angered her in-laws. Did her daughter-in-law do something wrong?

Because in the relationship, some "small details" will become a measure of whether the relationship is good or bad and whether you care. In fact, details not only play an important role in emotion, but also play an important role in understanding people. Personality, family education and personality can be seen in detail. As the saying goes, even if a person can't do the most basic things well, he won't feel at ease when doing other things.

Liu Shuang comes from a strict family. His parents are both high school teachers. He grew up asking for two words: rules. Due to the family environment, Liu Shuang had never been in love before graduating from college. I met a girl after graduation. She is a new salesman in the company. Her hair is long, her makeup is exquisite, her eyes are smart, her figure is good, she is carefree, humorous and humorous. In her second month, she won a big deal for the company. Maybe this is a bottoming out. For Liu Shuang, the vitality of this new colleague is what he yearns for. He began to approach her and chase her, hoping that she could become his girlfriend. Even if the other person is incompatible with him in all aspects, she is still a single-parent family. After graduating from the second school, she was not good at studying since she was a child. She is often late for work and has to eat takeout every three days. However, Liu Shuang still likes her because she makes him feel free.

Liu Shuang's love, his parents have long known. After all, my son usually doesn't go home for dinner, and he doesn't talk on his cell phone for two or three hours. They are just strict parents, not parents who oppress their sons. It's time for them to retire and let their son enjoy life. One day, they happened to say, "Are you in love? Let's look at home together. Settle down early and get married early. " Liu Shuang was very excited when he heard that he called his girlfriend home for dinner in a hurry. Unexpectedly, this is a meal. Will cause them to break up. On the day his girlfriend came, she bought fruit, flowers and roast duck. Yan's mother accepted this with a smile, spoke politely and licked them to eat fruit. At lunch time, mother Yan prepared six dishes and a soup, which was very rich. His girlfriend took the lead in putting a rib sandwich in the middle, then suddenly put it in her mouth, tasted it and said, "It smells good. It smells good when menstruation is cooked."

After that, the table was quiet. Neither the two elders nor Liu Shuang spoke. The girlfriend was obviously not used to it and asked, "What about you? All high school teachers, uncles and aunts? The pressure is not great. " Unexpectedly, her father took a look at her and said, "I can't eat, I can't sleep." Let's talk after dinner. "Liu Shuang stroked his girlfriend from under the table and motioned for her to pay attention to safety. In fact, before he came, she told her that she didn't talk much when eating at home, and she didn't remember. Then, an embarrassing voice rang out from the dining table. My girlfriend wants a harp every time she takes a bite. Liu Shuang talked about her before. She said "it's delicious", so he let it go. That night, my mother said seriously, "You are in love, and I have no objection. What kind of personality do you want? The sound of eating is so loud and uneducated. " Liu Shuang said, "This is someone else's habit. Why? Does this mean parenting? "

Father said, "If you are still uneducated, neither you nor my mother can move chopsticks at the dinner table. She ate a sparerib first. Be polite. " Obviously to break him up. Liu Shuang does know that his girlfriend has many bad habits, but her personality is definitely good. He wants to know, is eating really serious? Can bad habits represent character? For him, he really doesn't want to break up, but if the deadlock continues, there is nothing he can do. In the final analysis, marriage is the union of two families. Since ancient times, there has been "mutual rights", which means that there are no significant differences in concepts, backgrounds and living habits between the two families, and they can live in harmony. If two people have different family values and then fall in love, they can't stand the obstacles of their parents and can only break up unhappily and find a suitable person.