The second child is a boy. I feel that boy is very naughty and really don't want it. What should I do?

I am also the mother of two boys. Tell me how I feel!

When I was going to ask Bauer, I went with my daughter. And the calculated days are all girls, so I always thought it was a girl! Four and a half months later, the boy, instantly disappointed, cried directly! When I got home, I decided not to have all kinds of troubles with my husband. My husband didn't agree to abortion, saying that since our family came to us, we couldn't be cruel to him! But the thought that two daughters-in-law will be really sad in the future, I still don't want it. Finally, my in-laws joined my parents and counted me in. I gave up reluctantly! But to be honest, even if they agree, I can't help coming back when I get to the hospital! I am soft-hearted, just because my family doesn't agree to let me stay for a few days. I know myself, I can't really want to abort a five-month-old baby!

After the afterlife, all kinds of love, although sometimes laughed at by others, are still a little resentful. I thought why I didn't be cruel at first, but it was only a moment's thought, and I immediately regretted how I felt this way. Looking at the lovely child, no matter how much I suffer, it is worth it! And it doesn't have to be really bitter!

I have a son and a daughter by my side, and I also have two daughters. I think whether a person is happy or not is related to both husband and wife and family conditions, and it really has nothing to do with the sex of the child. Mother-in-law is two sons. She eats well and dresses well, and often travels. My son and daughter-in-law dare not go too far with them! With a son and a daughter around, my mother-in-law is not as smart and comfortable as her. She can only be busy at her son's house all day, and her daughter-in-law is still staring at her nose, and her daughter is afraid to speak. There are two daughters, both married, and the old man has passed away. No one can be there. It's quite lonely! This is only a special case, it can't represent everything, but it also shows that people who laugh at others with sons are too one-sided. Whether life is happy or not is mostly in our own hands. After educating my children, I don't believe that a few promising children will be bad to their parents. Don't refute me with special cases, don't accept it!

Same mentality as you. I cried on the spot when I learned that the second child was a boy. I think God is unfair. I wanted a daughter so badly that I didn't give it to me. I tried to get rid of him countless times. Deliberately jumping around the house, eating things that will cause miscarriage, eating at sixes and sevens, even taking laxatives and diet pills, and finally crying and discussing with her husband many times to give away her son when he is born. I didn't tell him that I had a B-ultrasound, and he didn't allow me to have an abortion. Every time I go to the prenatal examination, I think that if I am unhealthy, I can have an abortion aboveboard, but the result is normal every time. When I was doing four dimensions, I saw his chubby little face and mouth, and suddenly I felt how cruel I was. This is a life, my own child! He may be trying to grow up every day, thinking of coming out to hug his mother and see the world, but I want to kill him! Even if you really don't want to give it to someone who can't have children! At that time, there were neighbors in front of my house. My daughter-in-law is too fat to give birth. I can't buy a child outside, and I want to have a child in my dream. My husband and I discussed that if we really don't want it, we will give it to him. Finally, my husband let go and said that I would have a son. I found many examples of B-ultrasound flop on the Internet, hoping that the doctor was lucky enough to make a mistake, and finally I was born. The nurse told me it was another one with a handle, and I knew I lost the bet. I feel particularly sad. My husband greeted me when I left the ward and looked at me with tears in his eyes. He must be disappointed, and so am I. Back in the ward, I saw the baby lying in the crib, sleeping quietly for nothing, my God! He is so cute, like an angel, and his mouth whispers like a pig. I held him by my side and looked at him. The more I look at him, the more I like him and the cuter I look at him. My husband took him away, and I didn't want to leave, so I kept looking at him. He is so good, so good, he didn't cry much in the hospital for several days. He came home from the hospital for confinement, eating, sleeping and eating, then woke up twice and fed himself to sleep, but he didn't cry for a whole month. This is an angel baby! Two months later, I began to sleep all night. When you are full, put it on the bed and sleep by yourself. I have never seen such a worry-free baby. I don't think kissing dozens of times a day is enough. Isn't my husband mocking me for giving it away? You don't say! I will never say such stupid things again. I also complain that God is unfair. It turned out that he was eccentric and gave me the best baby. Now I look at him every day and smile at me quietly. His eyes are gentle as water, and I feel so happy. I'm glad I didn't get rid of him. Although my two sons are under great pressure, I am willing to give them the best I can. I love them, and it is worthwhile to work hard.

I'm glad to answer your question. Since coming to your side is predestined friends with you, we should cherish it. That's a gift from heaven. Maybe the younger son can bring good luck to the family. You must think so.

Two sons are also very good. When they grow up and get married, your family will be a big family. How nice. Don't envy other people's children. How can there be such an absolute thing? Look at things with a normal heart and never have unwanted thoughts. How pathetic is the baby? Having a son and a daughter is not necessarily better than having two sons. Fate is fate, just train him!

Let him be the pillar of the country and the pride of your husband and wife. Children are your own pride, so you must treat your children well and don't have such an idea.

I have a second child for more than five months now, and I am also a boy. Because it was a cesarean section, when I was pregnant with a second child, I found that the fetal sac was very close to the scar of the first cesarean section, with a little bleeding and redness. I was so worried that I couldn't sleep day and night that I had a miscarriage for some time. At that time, I never thought that if it was a boy, I wouldn't want him. At that time, I mainly thought that as long as the baby was healthy, both men and women should. Later 12 weeks, the baby's placenta did not grow to the scar. Not bad! /kloc-I didn't check it until 0/6 weeks, saying it was a boy. My mood at that time was really unacceptable! I also thought about not wanting him, but the child is four months old and all kinds of development are very good. Almost everyone has started to act. I can't stand not wanting him, but I can't accept it as a boy. It's been more than five months now, so I can only accept it slowly. It's not easy to have a baby now, it's not easy to get pregnant, it's not easy to get pregnant, every birth check is like going through customs, and it's not easy to be born. My friend also advised me that everything God gives our children is fate, and it will be good for you when you grow up and get a good education. Although my husband and I both have jobs, my mother-in-law is young and I am almost not worried about helping me with my children. Dabao is almost five years old, and he is a little warm man. I feel a lot of comfort in my heart. Take your time. Raising girls now is no more worrying than raising boys. After being a good mother-in-law, God will never mistreat kind people again!

I am honored to answer this question.

Every child is an angel. If you choose not to have this child because of your gender, it is not appropriate in law or reason.

As a mother, I have a daughter and have no plans to have a second child. Whether it is a son or a daughter, it takes a lot to raise a child. Son, you may feel a little naughty, but if you have a daughter, you may want her to be reincarnated as a boy in the next life.

Daughters may be intimate little cotton-padded jackets in everyone's eyes, but on the other hand, this is also an important reason for everyone to raise their daughters-that is, to be careful, patient, caring and take good care of their parents. So why can't boys do it? The inherent understanding of gender may indeed be caused by gender itself on the one hand and people's habitual thinking on the other.

Girls in this society are really hard. Whether you study, work or family, you have to pay much more than men. Although men and women are equal, it is true that men are more likely to go further and higher in many things.

So if you think you just want a daughter and don't want a son, then think about the efforts and efforts your daughter needs to make in the face of this society. I think having a son is more worry-free!

You have to rely on your own brother to kill a tiger. Well-trained, entering the old society is a blessing. Nothing is more expensive than a man and a son. They will spend most of their lives with their parents.

On June 23rd, my answer was simple. Today, I quote from the Pacific Parent-child Network. Senior editor's detailed answer (unedited).

How about having two boys?

1. Two children grow up together, play together, share things and feelings with each other and take care of each other. They will not be bored, lonely and grow up slowly. This kind of beauty can only be understood. Only those who have experienced it can understand that it is good to have a brother and sister.

When you grow up, you can have a brother and sister to communicate more, and everyone can discuss and help you. Of course, relatives and friends can also play this role, but it is not as good as the tacit understanding and care of their brothers and sisters from childhood.

It is busy for parents to have two children at home. Although they are tired and happy, if both children have them, they will be happier. They can count on it when they are old.

Nowadays, all kinds of bad social events emerge one after another and there are too many accidents. It is always more secure to have two children.

5, the child's child will have relatives or aunts in the future, and now there is one, and there are very few relatives who want to string together.

6. Having two children is a good education. One is an example, and the other doesn't like the other very much.

If you agree, I will attach great importance to your opinions and concerns.

(Attached with photos of brothers of navy sailors)

First of all, the mentality of having a second child should be put right. Why do you want a second child? It's selfish just for the happiness of children. The children who come here are all destined. Both boys and girls should be treated fairly. You can't decide whether that boy will stay or not in order to meet your expectations! And some boys are not naughty, and some girls are very skinny. It depends on how parents educate, regardless of gender!

I also have two sons. I didn't know about the unexpected pregnancy until half a year ago, and I got pregnant accidentally because I was too busy at work more than two months ago. They resolutely told the doctor that if I am pregnant, I don't want it, please arrange an abortion, lie in the color ultrasound room with uneasy heart, look at the words "have a fetal heart" at the moment when I get the color ultrasound list, cry in the hospital corridor, and think about giving myself a week to think about it. Dabao fell asleep at night and cried with him. All kinds of entanglements, I can't sleep night after night, I can't eat anything during the day, all kinds of anxiety, I'm afraid of having a second child and a son, and I'm afraid of watching Dabao fall asleep. Just a week later, I woke up in the morning and suddenly lost a lot of blood. When I went to the hospital, the doctor said that I had threatened abortion and wanted to stay in the hospital to prevent miscarriage. I was hospitalized without hesitation and had an injection in the hospital for a week. Since I chose to stay, no matter whether the second child is male or female, I always face this hard-won baby with all kinds of discomfort during pregnancy. When I was seven months old, I found it was a boy. Dabao cried in disappointment, and my heart was calm. Now Bauer is half a year old and an angel baby. After three months, I don't have to eat night milk, sleep all night, wake up and play by myself, and seldom cry. My brother likes my brother very much and plays with him after school. I think what you lose in life is what you gain. Since we are ready to have a second child, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is fate, and healthy growth is the most important thing. Recently, my sister has been married for many years and has seen countless doctors. She goes to the hospital to check her follicles six times a month. She finally got pregnant with an ectopic pregnancy and suffered from massive bleeding. It's hard to get pregnant, and it's even harder in the future. I'm even happier that I gave birth to Bauer. The arrival of every child is a kind of fate. Now that you are here, cherish it.

Abort and train the first child with the money of having a second child. Training is like having two sons. A bowl of water is flat, and children will hate you. I am the eldest son, and I hate having a younger brother deprive me of everything.

That means you have many lovers, so stay here! Although it is very bitter now, it will be fine when the children are older and more sensible! I am also very happy to go shopping with my son in the future!