Two children in Chengdu cooperated and stole cats sold in pet shops. How to educate children to change their bad habits?

According to media reports, cats sold in a pet store in Shuangliu, Chengdu were stolen, and the owner called the police after finding out. The police identified the suspects Xiao and Li based on surveillance. When the police investigated, Xiao and Li also said that they were influenced by their friends to do such stupid behavior. Through police investigation, Xiao gave the cat to others, causing losses to others.

1. To educate children, you must first correct your attitude. You cannot do something just because others ask you to do it.

This is the most basic truth. Nowadays, many people pay great attention to politeness, and children are no exception. Parents can usually communicate with their children more about their children’s thoughts and tell them whether their children saw this kitten today. If you are happy, then you will feel soft-hearted, and then you will tell your child that your child will not be obedient and will not study hard today, and then you will be very angry and will easily act out of line.

2. Many parents believe that if they make a mistake, they will be punished and there is no need to communicate with their children. However, they do not know that this is an incorrect way of ideological education.

Parents need to educate their children step by step, from critical education to appreciation education to reward education, one by one, so that they can educate children with excellent academic performance. Parents should educate their children step by step and not be too harsh on their children. When a child makes a mistake, he must first reflect on himself and think about why parents educate their children? If parents think that their children have done something wrong, the first thing they should reflect on is themselves, why they are not caring about their children, what mistakes they have made, and why they cannot guide their children correctly.

3. When many children steal cats, how do parents judge whether their children have done something wrong?

When a child steals a cat, parents must first determine whether the child has done something wrong. Because cat-stealing behavior is also an obvious manifestation of a child's inner desire, and children usually have a strong sense of need for children. If his need for cat-stealing behavior is not met, then he will not do this kind of cat-stealing behavior again. Or, because children cannot meet their parents' inner expectations, they cannot realize their parents' wishes. The child has always had a wish in the heart of the cat thief, that is, to buy a cat. The reason why many parents buy this kind of cat-stealing behavior for their children may not be because they really have no desire and purpose to keep a pet, but because they are afraid of being said that the cat-stealing behavior is dirty and unqualified.