Colleagues always want to rub their cars after work, how to politely refuse?

Recently, a friend left me a message, saying that every time he got off work, a colleague liked to rub the car, and sometimes even asked to be sent to a designated place, which made him very disgusted. But because of my colleagues, it is difficult to face the rejection directly, so I can only bear it with a smile. In fact, quite a few people are not grateful for driving, and some even regard you as a full-time driver. In view of this situation, Xiao Mu specially arranged some tips to share with you. Making excuses is the most common method. For example, going to relatives' homes, having dinner with friends, dating and so on. Anyway, the destination is the opposite of where he went. This is both tactful and effective. For several days, people used this excuse to go to different places, and the habit of rubbing cars was broken. Let him rub the car irregularly and be smart enough to realize that you don't want to be rubbed. If he is slow-witted, we can try the next method.

Ask friends to play together, and ask friends to play together when colleagues rub cars. I complained to my friends all the way, saying that I have no money to refuel now, and I am too poor to share the gas bill with my friends. Then let your friends share the gas bill. Even if your colleagues didn't talk all the time, you must have known. If you want to continue riding, you can share the toll together. Don't hesitate to continue to rub the car if you don't want to share it? Of course, it doesn't matter to have such a "cheeky" colleague. Try the next method.

Speaking of "cheeky" colleagues, you can deliberately stagger the off-duty time. I haven't finished my work today and have to work overtime, so my colleagues can't wait for you all the time. If I am waiting for you, let him wait. It's fate to meet such a patient and thick-skinned colleague. Perhaps, people have feelings for you, deliberately, and you have no response. (Laughter here) Or leave as soon as you get off work, and before the other person can react, you have already opened the situation.

There is another way to "eliminate" 99% hitchhiking and borrow money from each other. Don't borrow too much, borrow thousands of dollars. If he refuses, there is no reason to rub your car again. The human mind is like this. If they refuse you, they won't ask you to do anything. If he wants to rub your car again, he may lend it to you. If so, you won't pay back the money you borrowed. Don't mention it either. It's not good for him to rub your car and ask you to pay back the money. Don't show off when others ask you to pay back the money. Put things on the table.

None of the above moves is useful. What if my colleagues are invulnerable? Don't drive yourself for a few days, take the subway or ride a bike to work. You may have to work hard on your own, but in order to get rid of the crash, you can try this method, which is a euphemism, because colleagues show good feelings. If euphemism doesn't work, stop pestering colleagues and refuse directly. Tell each other that I don't want anyone in my car. Speak your mind and we will achieve our goal. Don't hold back. Sometimes it may be best to make it clear.

Sometimes with kindness, just by the way, in line with the principle of convenience for others. The essence of this is good, it is good, but sometimes good intentions do bad things. If the car accidentally had an accident on the road, causing injuries to the fellow passengers, the car should bear the main responsibility. If the passengers in the same car are seriously injured, disabled or killed, then these troubles may affect their future life and career, which is actually a risk.