Life has ups and downs, and you can't lose your mood without anything.

Life has ups and downs, and you can't lose your mood without anything.

1 Purify the mind

Many people like the feeling of being completely new after cleaning. Similarly, it feels good to get a haircut, because all the superfluous things are removed.

Children are happy because they don't have too much worry and unnecessary worry. Adults, on the other hand, have too much backlog, too much imaginary complexity and some enlarged sadness in our lives.

Anyone who has used a computer knows that the recycle bin needs to be emptied frequently, otherwise it will take up too much space and affect the running speed of the computer. The same is true of human thinking. You can't throw everything away and you can't keep everything. Smart people are good at choosing, and they choose at the right time. People who worry too much can't walk fast, and people who have no worries at all are mostly irrational.

And this is the difficulty of life. You have to keep cleaning up and giving up something, because "the less things you stuff in your life, the more you can develop your potential." I remember in a play, a man said to the hero, "Go, don't look back, don't come back if you can't do it well." He wants him to leave here, hoping that the past will not drag him down.

Cleaning the mind is a process of struggle and struggle. Life is a constantly fluctuating journey. Teenagers should bid farewell to their hometown, sad people should bid farewell to sadness, eagles should bid farewell to ease, and happiness should bid farewell to sadness. No farewell, no growth. To be strong, you must have enough courage to turn around. Parting is to get together better.

Giving up is also a kind of tolerance

A person, like a country, can't grow without tolerance. Among all the elements of success, the mind is the first, or tolerance is the first.

Sometimes, giving up offensive words, giving up the impulse of anger and giving up the desire for revenge is a kind of tolerance in itself.

Smart people often give up explaining. For many people, explanation is a cover-up. Li Ao said it well: Sometimes explanations are unnecessary. Enemies don't believe your explanation, and friends don't need your explanation. Many things don't need to be explained at all. Sometimes it's not sunny because it hasn't rained thoroughly. If only there were.

Successful people should not be afraid of being scolded, because as long as you do one thing, you will make mistakes, touch some people and cause some people's dissatisfaction. In fact, it is good that 50% people agree with you. There are few things in the world that are 100%. The more beautiful things are, the easier it is to break. We should exercise our ability to deal with opposition correctly and take the initiative to ask for opposition. Don't complain about your opponent. He can have his own opinion. This is his freedom, not yours. Don't argue with him, the important thing is to hurry up.

Time makes beauty.

Almost everyone has their own sadness, so some seemingly important places, such as hometown, alma mater, former unit and first love scene, do not necessarily have many people going back enthusiastically, because there are too many stories and too many burdens in them. Far from eye, far from heart.

When everything can be relaxed, there is often nothing to lose. Time has diluted the past, leaving only beautiful memories, memories of youth, memories of growth, memories of struggle, bright smiles passing by and warm candlelight on lonely nights. I have participated in and interviewed many school celebrations, and the white hair and tears of reunion after a long separation attracted my attention most. Time can soften the hardest heart.

Social psychologists tell us that jealousy comes from similar industries and regions, and conflicts often come from the entanglement of interests. "All living things are exposed to fierce struggles", because all living things tend to grow at a high speed. Under the condition of limited resources, struggle for existence is inevitable. The fiercest struggle almost always happens between individuals of the same species, because they live in the same area, need the same food and suffer the same threat. It takes time and distance to ease some tensions. If you are far away, you will feel irrelevant and let go. From a distance, many things are beautiful.

Therefore, we don't have to be depressed about the problems that can't be solved. The problems that can't be solved will disappear in the torrent of time. Hostility, misunderstanding, contempt and contradiction will fade with the passage of time, and time can turn the sea into a mulberry field.

4 retirement aesthetics

No matter how good your eyes are, you will be tired if you stare at something for a long time. One's physical strength, emotion and intellectual cycle determine that one can't stay in orgasm forever. In a life cycle, people will inevitably go to low tide. A year is a life cycle.

"A timely and beautiful retreat is as important as a beautiful attack. Helping a person for a long time, even the goddess of luck will be tired. " The important thing is not to win applause when you arrive, but to miss you when you leave.

The aesthetics of retirement is a good beginning and a good end. The key is the time and way of "ending". It is more difficult to go out smoothly than to go in smoothly, because the top of the mountain is beautiful, because people are usually tired when they go down.

"A rolling stone gathers no moss." You can't climb that mountain without going down it. People will climb countless mountains in their lifetime. Every mountain is so unique, but no mountain is really worth staying forever.

One factor affecting retirement is lust, and the other is excessive persistence. For the benefit of life, no one should be too persistent. The so-called excessive persistence means not being paranoid about a certain aspect, a certain desire, an attempt, a certain purpose or a certain process. Any paranoia may make people lose their pertinent judgment, thus missing beautiful scenery and delaying life.

Nothing can lose your mood.

Give someone a smile and you won't lose anything, because it will always come back. Things will come back when they go out. There is no one who doesn't like smiling.

But the problem is that things that make people smile are often not around, and things that make you upset and uneasy are often lingering. Being unable to be with people and things you like is the root cause of many people's unhappiness, because you have no source of happiness.

Once upon a time, I was disappointed The girl I like doesn't care about me. My elaborate manuscript has been changed, and my health has gone wrong. A cold visits me from time to time, and my life is a mess. At this time, my good friend said to me, "You can't lose your mood if you lose anything. Let something go. " . I decided to change. I stopped looking for the girl and immediately threw the manuscript away. I also bid farewell to my lazy and irregular life and began to play ball and run every day. As a result, my body became fit, my manuscript was published soon, and I won an award. The girl I no longer "care" began to care about me. ...

There must be a reason why a person or thing can make you uncomfortable. Some reasons will take you a long time to know, and some you will never know, but these are not important. The important thing is to make you uncomfortable. It will affect your mood, your judgment and your time.

What's wrong with giving others a chance to get to know you again and yourself a chance to know the wider world?