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Enlarge the pattern, so as not to be trapped by trivial matters.

-"Don't be crazy about trifles: trifles are always trifles"

Shooting at a distance of 65438+ million kilometers from the Earth.

Scientific research shows that the earth is only as big as basketball at a distance of 65438+ 10,000 kilometers (think about how big each of us is); At a distance of 6 billion kilometers from the earth, the earth is just one of the small bright spots (think about how big each of us is). When wishing the elderly a long life, people always say "live a hundred years", that is to say, if you can live a hundred years in this life, you will live a long life. Generally speaking, after one hundred years, we will definitely leave this planet. No one will remember anything, and no one will care about everything you have done, good or bad.

Therefore, when we encounter pressure or crisis, think that we are just a speck of dust in the vast universe, and whatever you do, brilliant, brilliant, gloomy, successful or unsuccessful: after a hundred years, no one will remember. So, enlarge your own pattern, live happily, hold this hundred years in your hands and spend every day meaningfully.

Your pattern is big, and everything is nothing. You won't be upset by doing more things at work that you shouldn't have done yourself; You won't be angry because a colleague's words are a little negligent; You won't quarrel because you disagree with your lover; You won't take it out on your children because you are unhappy.

When we are consumed by "small things", it is the most worthwhile.

Go to the market to buy food after work. When I paid the bill after buying vegetables, I had an argument with the old lady who sold vegetables. Her food is 35 cents more expensive than others'. The old lady said that her food was more expensive when it was fresh, and you are still bargaining. For vegetables at 35 cents a catty, you quarrel fiercely, wasting time and making you angry. You go home and cook and cut vegetables angrily, and the child kindly asks you questions. You are in a bad mood: "You can't do such a simple question! Didn't you listen in class? " You take it out on your child, and the child is innocent, irritable, in a bad learning state, and the learning efficiency drops. This is really not worth the loss.

The correct way is: a hundred dollars or even a few cents is a very small thing. Even if you lose money every day, it has no effect on your life. Besides, you can't lose money every day. You don't have to spend time and energy arguing. You have the energy and time to argue, do what you like, do meaningful things, read books on parenting, and see how to improve your career development, keep a diary and keep a good mood. Of course, it is not that we don't care about anything. If it is a matter of principle, we must argue to the end. However, in life, more than 90% of things are trivial.

Remember: principles are important, and unity in small matters is important.

Many events can be ignored in the long river of time. In this world, everything is insignificant except life and death.

All these good and bad things are like a dream in retrospect.

Friends 20 16 10, traveling with 57-year-old mother, the round black face of the old man reveals the health and stockiness of rural women. Unexpectedly, from 2065438 to March 2007, I got cancer. When she went to the hospital in April, her mother was so thin that she couldn't bear to look straight at her. The operation was successful in May, and I went home to recuperate. In August, I heard that the recovery was very good. I also told her: "Cancer can be cured, and my aunt is back to normal now." I haven't paid attention since. I thought the operation was successful, and people have returned to normal, so they are normal. Unexpectedly, in the middle of February 20 17, 17, I was shocked to hear that my friend's mother had a cancer recurrence and hadn't eaten a drop of water for a long time. At the end of February, my friend and mother passed away with pain and disappointment!

How fragile life is, people come to this world not to experience anger and trouble, but to enjoy happiness and happiness. Whenever someone really annoys you and makes you fly into a rage, please be silent for 5 minutes, imagine the other person as a baby and look at their small facial features and innocent eyes. We know that babies will inevitably annoy people, and we used to. Then, put the clock forward for decades, imagine the other person as a dying old man, and think that everyone will be old and leave this world in a few decades, so you won't be angry. With patience and tolerance, let yourself not be angry with anything or anyone. Self-interest, altruism.