How to deal with mistress's vicious behavior of not breaking the law

The wife must know that mistress has a plan, either for money, for people, or for both people and money.

So, what San Xiao fears most is that his wife and men unite to deal with her together.

In other words, as long as you can make Xiao San's plot hopeless, it is the most ruthless move for her.

Specifically, there are only three words: procrastination, stability and fierceness.

Before explaining these three words, I want to remind you that this matter has a process and must be done in order.

The order is that you break them up first and then consider whether you want this man or not. This process should not be chaotic. Don't get excited, don't want this man. At that time, you may have a good life, but you will always struggle, especially after your divorce, they are really together. You said you couldn't stop it, and it was too late for you to do anything.

Ok, let me explain to you how to slow down.

First, drag. Procrastination means not getting divorced, so that Third Sister can be exposed.

As I said before, Third Sister, it's all for the superior. Then, in order to get ahead, she will pretend to be particularly gentle and make men feel that she is particularly good. Procrastination is to show her true colors and let men know that she is not as perfect as you think. She has more shortcomings than your wife. You're married anyway. What are you afraid of? You just don't get divorced. Over time, the little cuties will get bored and Britney will become a cow. Men need time to see her for who she really is. Who can survive, she wants to be superior, but she can't.

Second, stability. The mood must be stable.

In the face of betrayal, people are bound to be angry, anxious, painful and collapsed, and all kinds of complicated emotions will exist. But at this time, no matter how broken you are, you should keep your mood stable. No matter how irritating Third Sister is, you can't tear it in her face. No matter how much your husband kneels for forgiveness, don't say yes at once. Don't make trouble, don't cry, you will live a normal life. Be nice to your husband, okay? After all, you still want him to return to his family. When you are steady, your husband will panic. Because he doesn't know what you're thinking or what you're going to do next.

As soon as he panics, he will start all kinds of tests. Think about it, when you are caught in the cold war and don't know what he wants to do, are you also guessing? Try and do a lot of things. Look at his attitude.

Everyone is human, and so is he.

Third, ruthless.

When he is working hard, when he tells you that he will come back, you should negotiate with him. Divorce is not necessary, but it must be done 12345. For example, pay all the money and give you pocket money; If you break up with your third sister, you won't mention the past again; What are the conditions of the marriage agreement and so on. In short, talk about requirements and make conditions according to your own needs.

If he agrees, sign the agreement and find a lawyer to ensure the validity of the agreement. Don't say I'm embarrassed. He knelt down and begged me. He is also the father of the child. I am embarrassed to sign the agreement. Don't be a saint at this time.

If he doesn't want to, or tells you that you can't do this and that, remember, don't talk nonsense with him. Tell him directly, or get a divorce. Say that finish this sentence, let him move out, if he doesn't move, you will go back to your mother's house, which is useful at this time. Anyway, remember, if you want to be separated from him, you need a cold treatment at this time.

Remember, don't say anything else, don't say an unnecessary word. The less words, the greater the strength.

This set of practices, the order is this order, but it needs to cooperate with the real operation. First of all, procrastination is the foundation of success, and the goal should not be chaotic; Secondly, the whole mood should be stable, talk less and make no trouble, which is the key to your success; Finally, if you want to do it, you should pretend to want to cry, vent, find a reliable girlfriend, find me, but you can't find your in-laws, remember not to collapse in front of your husband.

I hope there will be no third sister in the world, and I hope every master can protect his home.

I'm Zhou Xiaopeng, a marriage counselor. If you have marital emotional confusion, please leave a message in private ~