Avoid being a bill-paying man and talk to her with the right attitude.

If you want to keep in touch with her and please her with a treat and a gift, it will undoubtedly give a woman a framework to pay the bill, and the subsequent attraction will be in vain. She contacted you only because of value, not because of your own attraction. Therefore, in the process of chatting, we must treat women with the right framework.

Today, let's talk about the problem of "paying the bill" that has caused many people a headache.

When chatting with women, try to avoid exposing the sense of need and form a relaxed and interesting interaction mode between you. If a woman doesn't return your message, don't contact her in a hurry. Nothing, chatting with women is very casual. If you take this seriously, you will unconsciously expose too much sense of need when chatting, then women will treat you with another framework.

If you want to keep in touch with her and please her with a treat and a gift, it will undoubtedly give a woman a framework to pay the bill, and the subsequent attraction will be in vain. She contacted you only because of value, not because of your own attraction. Therefore, in the process of chatting, we must treat women with the right framework in order to get good results.

The first time a woman meets a man, it will give a lot of tests.

The reason is that they will keep men for their own use. The more sociable women are, the more they will do it, and many men will be willing to join these ranks.

Just chatting online, eating, afternoon tea, cinema, intimate brother, booth,

KTV, MasterCard, phone bill recharge, driver, breakfast delivery staff, 24-hour convenience store, global positioning nurse, private secretary, etc., and even "be a good tour guide and hotel owner" (travel together and sleep separately).

Actually, women are not that bad.

It's just that too many men are willing to pay to please women in exchange for reproductive value, making the original beautiful things "cheap" and "sad".

"Friendship zone" is just one of these "tool relationships".

Let's give an example:

1. Girls take the initiative to test your situation.

Girl: "When are you free? Come out and play together. "

"Yes, when XXXX is free/but not recently." No matter how you answer, it doesn't matter, because you will always get stuck in the box. The key is how you climb out from behind. )

Girl: "There is a very good movie recently/I heard that XXXX has delicious XXXX. And so on. "

"ok, see you at XXXXX." A direct commitment means that she is willing to accept it. She will go further.

Girl: "You have to invite me ~" or "I'll bring a friend."

You asked a girl out and she agreed.

Let's not say that you take the initiative to invite you to dinner and so on (because this is the situation you set up for people to kill, this framework is wrong and goes against basic common sense. )