Why does dad like to scold mom?

Yes, it is difficult for children to understand what their parents are going through. Very distressed and helpless.

Mom is a good mother. She is doing what she should do, and she must work hard. She always put up with some unhappy things and stuffed grievances into her stomach. You're old. You feel it. That's good. You can help. First, be kind to your mother. For example, listen to your mother more, and she will try to do everything well. Do your own thing (daily life, eating and drinking, studying and some housework, etc.). ) as much as possible, and let your mother worry less. Second, pay attention to observe what makes mom dissatisfied with dad; Third, I often chat with my mother and care about what my mother is thinking, what she wants, what difficulties she has, what she is dissatisfied with and what she thinks of her father. In this way, your mother will be proud of you and become the source of her happiness.

Dad has many questions, but he still loves you. The question is, what makes him so contradictory and willful? What you can do is: always tell him that you have made progress in your study, and often talk to him about some feelings about your study. At home, you can show your learning momentum and effectiveness with great fanfare, and make him feel that you are an ideal person who is willing to work hard and be positive; Whenever possible, praise what your mother has done, forgive her negligence, and let her feel that you are her strong backing. You don't know much about dad's work. If he speaks, listens carefully, occasionally praises his success, and tells him that it doesn't matter if he is unhappy, everything will be fine. Dad's other ideas should also be carefully listened to, and opinions should be expressed from time to time, so that he can feel that your family is United with the outside world, and it will always be better if you work hard together. Pay special attention to his dissatisfaction with his mother. What is the reason? If his mother is right, he is unreasonable. If her mother does something wrong, you should be calm anyway. Please tell dad to step aside. You can repeatedly tell him "don't be angry" or "a little thing, a little thing". When he is angry, tell him calmly, "If you are angry, just ignore him. Do you want it? " "Will you curse?" "Apologize to mom, dare you?" And so on. In short, calm down the atmosphere first, then talk about things calmly. It doesn't matter if some people don't say anything, then apologize and "laugh off the great hatred".

As for you, first of all, you should take care of yourself and be a positive and happy person. If you can do this, you will become a fusion agent of parents' relationship and make your family more harmonious and warm. It doesn't matter if you can't do it. Treat everything with a normal heart and do what you should do. Don't hurt yourself or your parents. They always find a solution. As you grow day by day, there will be more and more roads.

Have fun! I wish your family happiness!