My husband finds fault with me every day. What should I do?

It is normal for couples to know each other better because they have been together for a long time, and occasionally talk about each other's shortcomings and deficiencies. But if you want to talk about your shortcomings every day like your husband, you really have to find a way to solve it. You can try the following methods.

First, talk to him sometime. If your husband keeps talking about your shortcomings and forgets your strengths, then there may be problems between you. At this time, you must talk it over with him. Two people calm down and have a good talk, speak out the questions in your heart, ask him for answers, and ask him why he always talks about your problems. Nothing can't be solved by communication and chat. After what was said, there was nothing. Problems between husband and wife are not terrible. The terrible thing is that the other party is unwilling to communicate and say it.

Second, have a good self-reflection. When you have nothing to do, think about whether your husband's shortcomings really exist. If they do exist, please try your best to correct them. He will say that you show that he really likes your shortcomings and hope you can get rid of them. If he tells you many times, you still do that, and one day he can't stand it, so remedy it quickly, or it will be too late.

Third, talk about your own advantages. Husband talks about your shortcomings, and you talk about your own advantages. If he keeps talking about your shortcomings, you will gradually forget your strengths. When he talks about your shortcomings, you can remind him of your advantages and may forget your shortcomings.

Husband and wife must constantly run in, because together for a long time, the original love will become family, will live together, will encounter many problems in life, so the other side must understand each other.