What does it mean when your boyfriend gives you a quack?

He is perfunctory with you. You can consider whether to replace someone. Status is earned by oneself. It is their fault that they favor sons over daughters. Speaking out is not to allow them to change their minds, but to show your attitude:

You will not approve of them treating you like this. You are also their child and should be treated equally.

They may get angry and accuse you of these and other things, deliberately opening up old scores and exaggerating some things to say something bad about you. This is nothing more than suppressing your will, proving their narcissism is right, and making you succumb to their treatment. But it is precisely because of their blows that make you feel low, and your status in the family will be low. "People who truly cherish you will not despise you, attack you, or deny you from the personality level. Because if you have a little *** People with emotional ability must know the harm that some words will cause to you. If the other person still chooses to do that, then he is willing to sacrifice your feelings to satisfy his own short-term pleasure, which is the most cruel thing. . Besides, language is the sharpest knife in the world. There is no strong person under this blade."

Look at his face, think about who he is, and his position in your heart. Look at the game and think about your original intentions

If you fail to control your emotions, even if it affects others a little bit, you must take the initiative to apologize

I hope you are as eager to win as I am And people who have lost themselves can understand what is most important. If they cannot change their attitude towards games, they must understand the preciousness of friendship

(The writing is not good, but the heart is absolutely sufficient) Relatives are generally divided into two types, one is One kind has a bad character, and one kind has a good character.

Relatives with good character are generally tolerant and generous in their treatment of others, and treat everyone equally regardless of whether they are rich or poor. I will never embarrass you in public, let alone bully you in public. They won't criticize you unless your behavior is so bad that they can't bear it. The cultivation and quality of such relatives are better than most people. Such relatives are hard to come by. There are some, but they are rare.

The other type is relatives with poor moral character. This kind of relatives bully the weak and fear the hard, bully the good and fear the evil, and speak and do things with strong utilitarianism and purpose. There is only one reason why such relatives dare to blatantly embarrass you and bully you. They know that there is no price for embarrassing you and there is no price for bullying you.

When you were a child, they looked down on you and bullied you, just because they looked down on your parents; when you grew up, they dared to bully you, and even bully your parents, just because they looked down on you, absolutely. There is no other reason. In the first thirty years, the father respects the son, and in the second thirty years, the child respects the father.

For this kind of person, you have to accept their insults honestly. Or else be determined not to return to your hometown from the beginning, and cut off the possibility of contact with these evil relatives from the beginning.

After all, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. Although it is temporarily satisfying to refute these villainous relatives, it is even more troublesome to be suppressed and assassinated by these grudge-bearing relatives later!

After all, your parents still have to deal with them. They can't bully you, so they isolate and bully your parents instead, and speak ill of you in front of your parents overtly or covertly. At that time, in order to fit into the small family group, your parents may in turn work with others to hurt you and point fingers at you. It's totally possible!

From another perspective, if your parents always stand unswervingly on your side, even if they fall out with relatives, they will still stand by you. Your psychological quality is strong enough and you don’t care about the isolation and exclusion of relatives at all. . Congratulations, you are brave and tough, and you are not afraid at all. But if not, you should carefully consider whether it is necessary to fall out in public.

To endure humiliation, it is a "unique skill" that most people in this world must learn. To endure humiliation and humiliation, until eventually no humiliation can be tolerated, and to turn a deaf ear to the ridicule and ridicule of relatives. Congratulations, you can successfully become a teacher!

For these villainous relatives, we really have to endure the calm for a while, either endure it, swallow it, or stay away, ignore it, and be quiet! Now that we are aware of the problem, what we have to do is to solve it

I was bullied in school because they thought I was easy to bully. Then next time they bully me, I will resist and he will hit me. I also beat him, so that one day, he will not dare to bully me anymore

If you dare not answer questions in class, then raise your hands more often, regardless of whether it is right or wrong

Being oppressed by superiors , at worst I won’t work here anymore, the world is so big, I won’t be able to starve to death

In short, no matter where you feel you are weak, you have to face it, don’t run away, running away will only make you weaker

Of course, resistance does not require you to do something wrong, nor does it require you to commit a crime. You must fight for yourself within a reasonable and legal scope

Don’t regret it afterwards, face it bravely, One day, you will find that you are so powerful.