My wife just wants to compare.

Wife often wants to compare with others in order to force you to make progress. The so-called pressure is motivation, isn't it?

Many people live a mediocre life, not because of his poor ability and low IQ, but because he is too comfortable to lie in his comfort zone and his ability is buried, because he has a wife who is content with the status quo, likes to make do with life and tolerate his shortcomings in every way.

And those who achieve extraordinary things often have a wife who is gentle but never satisfied and likes to compare with others. She yearns for a better life, pays attention to everything and is never satisfied. She is like a whip, whipping behind you. If you stop, you will be covered with scars.

I don't think there is anything unusual. Both men and women have a little vanity and comparison in their hearts, but most people don't admit it or realize it.

Sometimes, comparison is unconscious, and it is not completely reflected in the envy of others. For example, seeing other people's husbands and wives are handsome and virtuous, seeing other people's mother-in-law are so kind and kind, and seeing other people's children are so clever and sensible ... Can this be said to be not a comparison?

If it is a material comparison, she sees what others have and wants to have it. If she doesn't get it, she will lose her temper. This is a little too much. I think no matter what kind of comparison, it is unpleasant for the people who compare, so it will be much happier to know how to put yourself in the other person's shoes and often see the advantages of others.

I feel that the subject should be like this. Besides keeping up with the joneses, is your wife hardworking, upright and filial ... You will be much happier if you look at her advantages!

Why do wives often fail to keep up with others? Mainly influenced by their own surroundings, people will never be satisfied. I always feel that they are all women. The same woman married someone else, living in better conditions than her, dressed beautifully, had money to play mahjong at home and drove around in a private car, which caused him to be unbalanced. She only saw the bright side of others, but did not see the efforts and fate behind her.

A person's fate is not good, he can't think of it, sometimes fate will play tricks on a person. This cannot be forced. You are destined to have it in your life, and you are destined to have it without thinking about it, which makes you a little uncomfortable. She also wants to achieve this state of life, but she can't. Her mind is not parallel and uncomfortable. She is not satisfied with the status quo. She wants to keep up with others, so sometimes it will cause discord between husband and wife, complain that her husband doesn't have the living conditions she wants, and even do something out of line. In the end, she couldn't change his life. This is destiny.