Married daughter-in-law often takes her two-year-old son out for the night. What should I do?

The age difference between my wife and me is 18 years old. She was born in 1990 and has no job for the time being.

Now she takes her children out three or four times a month and often stays outside for two or three days, saying that she is going to play with her classmates.

I have never met her so-called classmate. Almost every time you go out, you never tell me. But every time she goes out, she takes a bath, puts on makeup, puts on lipstick and dresses neatly. Also carrying a bag full of milk powder.

But at home, she basically doesn't tidy up, she doesn't tidy up, she is timid and depressed; The house is in a mess. The dishes are on the table. I often come back to clear the table, clean the kitchen and mop the floor. She can sleep with her children until 10 in the morning and10/0 in the evening. Sometimes take the children out to play. At home, Ben watches TV and the children follow her.

Busy with work, I often go out early and come back late. I go out at seven in the morning and come back at eleven in the evening. We sleep separately, she takes the children to sleep in the master bedroom and I sleep in the assistant bedroom. She hardly makes the bed, and she sleeps with small toys, children's books and other things.

Usually I don't have time. Sometimes I come back to cook in the afternoon. On weekends, we drive to the suburbs and come back in the afternoon. I can't cook. Now I'm learning to cook. She doesn't like cooking.

I'm with her. I haven't seen her cell phone for a long time. She often chats with people on her mobile phone. Sometimes when I suddenly walk in, she quickly hides her mobile phone.

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Children go to other provinces for training at the age of six months, so they can't come back often. She took care of the children in the country and gradually began to complain that I didn't accompany her well and didn't care about people. Once she took an examination of civil servants and later applied for a certificate in the provincial capital, with her grandmother and her best friend. She complained that I couldn't help, which made her run for help. They live at home in our provincial capital. As a result, her best friend called me and said that my daughter-in-law went to dinner with the teacher who helped her in the evening and didn't come back until twelve o'clock in the evening. Nobody answered the phone, then turned it off and didn't come back until noon the next day. She told her best friend that she had drunk too much, and then the teacher left (a man and a woman), and she drank a lot of wine herself, and then found a hotel to rest. I did not ask her. I think I should trust her.