I almost broke down when my parents quarreled. Say, Hangzhou girl is going to collapse. ...

If you are not married after the age of 30,

Would you choose to live with your parents?

Recently, a netizen in Hangzhou posted:

Advise everyone to move out as much as possible.

Staying with your parents all the time will only increase your troubles.

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I want to tell the unmarried sisters who still live with their parents that they can move out and live by themselves! If you can't afford a house, you have to rent a house! Really, the quality of life is too bad!

If you want to say why I feel so deeply, it's all a lesson of blood!

Maybe many sisters, like me, don't choose to work away from home and live with their parents, which can save a sum of rent and take care of their parents conveniently. However, living with parents will really add a lot of trouble!

1. Different living habits

I am a standard night owl, and I am used to sleeping at 12 every day. The company goes to work at 9: 30, and I get up at 8: 00 in the morning, but my parents go to bed before 10: 00 and get up before 6: 00 every morning. I slept very lightly and was easily woken up. When my parents get up at six in the morning, I am often woken up. It's really a collapse! When they get up at night, they like to visit my door. If they see me awake, they will knock on the door to remind me to go to bed early.

There is also diet, such as. I belong to the heavy taste, but they think it's time for me to exercise, so every time I eat something heavy and spicy, they have to say a few words. I can't say anything about their living habits, but I also have my own habits. If I listen to them for a long time, I will be a little annoyed.

2. Cell phone addiction

This includes but is not limited to playing mobile phones and shopping on mobile phones. Parents can't persuade them to play with their mobile phones. My mother also likes to watch a live broadcast with goods on the sound, especially the anchor that few people watch. As soon as you go in, people will smile at your id and interact with you. My sister is short and has a sweet mouth.

My mother started the buy buy shopping mode as soon as she was happy, and as a result, she bought a bunch of useless things with poor quality. Talking too much, my mother thinks I care too much. I really want to think about it, but I can't see it. It is said that when I was a child, my parents couldn't control electronic products, but now when I grow up, my parents can't control mobile phones at all!

The following is just the tip of the iceberg that our family keeps.

Urge marriage

This is really annoying, and it is a double torture of body and mind. My annual salary is 20w+, and my job is stable. I don't think I'm so bad that I can't find a good one, but my parents don't think so. I think I'm 32 years old now and I'm not married. What if I can't get married in the future? So they asked all kinds of relatives and friends to introduce me to blind date. I often come home from work, and I can see my mother laughing with her mobile phone. "Little darling, look at this. I studied in England, and now I work in a state-owned enterprise. I think it's good. I have time to cut it. See you this weekend. "

Sometimes when I watch a drama at home on weekends, my parents drag me out on a blind date and say, "Can watching a TV play help you find a boyfriend?" The current TV series is made to lie to you young people! "

Actually, I have tried to communicate with my parents, but there are really some problems. They are in my bones. I can't change my parents, and neither can my parents change me. So in the end, I found that there is really only one solution to the problem: living separately.

Recently, I saw a girl who was in a similar situation to me in Weibo. She was depressed, lived with her parents, quarreled every day, and finally committed suicide. Although I don't think the reality is that scary, it's really not something that can be turned a blind eye.

So, you are excellent sisters who are still single! Try to move out as soon as possible. If you have the ability to buy a house, it will be considered a sound investment.

But I also make a wish here, hoping that I can really meet true love as soon as possible, which not only fulfills my parents' wishes, but also keeps me from being lonely all the time.

At the bottom of the post, many netizens feel the same way, feeling that many parents' ideas are hard to change, and perhaps living separately is the best choice.

Some people think that the landlord's idea is right, but some netizens think that the landlord in his thirties is still so headstrong and not a sensible person.

Some netizens think that the landlord doesn't know a little bit of land, so he should give his parents more tolerance.

Some parents in the comment area also said that the crux of the landlord problem is actually the conceptual conflict between the two sides. Parents should learn to let go, and children should understand their parents' good intentions.

Have you ever met a similar situation?

How do you think you should get along with your parents?

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