It's a little different from my husband's family culture.

After graduating from college, I got a marriage certificate with my current husband, and then life was not as beautiful as campus love. I think everything is a problem, both economically and in terms of communication.

My husband's family is rural, with a lot of money but a particularly backward culture. Perhaps because of the geographical location, some modern concepts have not been completely assimilated there. When I first went to his house, I also felt that the folk customs there were simple and harmonious. Although I won't settle there, I like the small village that is not complicated by too many things, which gives people a feeling of mind washing. But it is this beautiful heart in my arms that lost to reality in the next life.

Although my mother-in-law works in a metropolis all the year round, her ideological and cultural model is totally unacceptable to me. Father-in-law drinks a bottle of beer and a glass of white wine every meal, which means that it takes more than 1 hour for each meal to remove the chopsticks. As a fast-paced life, this is already annoying. Then the eccentric mother-in-law is even more confusing. When she was happy, she talked and laughed with her father-in-law until he finished his meal. But when she's unhappy, it's just a nervous breakdown. She slammed the door and loudly scolded her father-in-law for eating so slowly every day and drinking to death. I don't understand what my mother-in-law did, because such a farce is staged every day, which makes me feel very headache. I once advised them to let my father-in-law drink less. She said that I was rude and didn't understand my father-in-law. She said that he worked hard and drank a little. So inconsistent, I can't understand how such a life structure is maintained. Fortunately, it's only been a few days since the Spring Festival.

I won't do anything about the pace of their life, but I'm worried that my son's growth in such an environment will have a bad influence on his children, so I will take them back to my hometown to take care of their parents. Although my parents are also in the countryside, at least the family atmosphere is normal. Dragon Boat Festival is coming. My mother-in-law missed her grandmother very much, but she did something stupid without thinking, which embarrassed me at my parents' place.

Originally, we agreed to take our children back to our hometown for the Dragon Boat Festival today, and then came to tell us early in the morning that we didn't buy a ticket, and then my husband, who only read the sage book, asked me to buy a train ticket or something. Finally, considering the old people's feelings of missing their grandchildren, they had to spend three times as much as the hard seat to buy a soft berth ticket, which took five hours by car. I bought a ticket on the premise that I had said I would definitely come back 10 days in advance, but it was useless and I was still angry with me. My mood is very complicated. I don't know if I should stick to this marriage. We don't have a house yet, and I usually save money by saving money. My mother was also very angry. She is in the mood of helping me take care of my children and making me work hard to earn money to buy a house. She looked at the wasted money and felt a little unhappy. After all, last year I begged my mother-in-law to bring my children back for me to see. She said it was a waste of money. Now I'm thinking about all kinds of opinions about coming back to see the children. I feel that she is so hypocritical.

Moreover, my husband earns less than me 1/4, and makes me play poker with my mobile phone every day if I can't play well. Am I a nanny? I also have a very tired job, and I want to have a rest. Why does he have it? I find that my mentality and pattern are now confined to this endless trivial matter of life. It comes down to my husband and I grew up in different cultural environments. I can't communicate with him in my life. What should I do now? He didn't agree to divorce, but I always wanted to escape.