The wisest insights on life in the circle of friends

1. In the past, drinking and singing were called class. Nowadays, I live a low-key life, work hard to make money, and spend more time with my family, which is called reliable. No matter how good you are or how rich you are, doing things that match your age is called responsibility!

2. Don’t fight with anyone. If you love you, there is no need to fight. If you don’t love you, it’s useless to fight. There is always an answer to everything. Instead of worrying, it’s better to let nature take its course.

3. In this world, there is no one-and-done, perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. Not all the benefits are yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can gain something. Because, this is life.

4. The reason why you should not fight with villains when dealing with others: if you win against villains, you will become even more villainous than villains; if a villain defeats you, you will become even worse than villains; if you tie, you will become the same as villains. . The best way to deal with villains is to give them a wide berth.

5. Give yourself some time every day to settle. When you can face the inherent clumsiness and loneliness in your body, you will be able to completely forgive your past self.

6. The performance of life requires practice a hundred times before you can achieve beauty once. Life gives you some pain just to teach you what it wants to teach you. If you can't learn it once, you will suffer once. If you always fail to learn, you will fall in the same place over and over again.

7. When a person grows up, he dares to face his true self brutally: before choosing, he has a sincere and firm face; after choosing, he has a heart that will not abandon or give up.

8. What makes people fall easily is not a strange place, but a familiar road; what makes people easy to fail is not their own stupidity, but their self-righteous wisdom.

9. If you don’t blindly compare with others, you will be at ease. If you don’t set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don’t deliberately pursue perfection, you will avoid pain. If you don't be harsh on yourself all the time, you will live comfortably. If you don't nitpick every time, you will be relaxed.

10. We always regard the small favors given by strangers as great emotional favors, but we take those around us who love you wholeheartedly as a matter of course.

11. In life, there are always many disappointments and many messages. Life is helpless. Give yourself generosity, give others trust, strive for what you want, and try to change your current situation.

12. We will meet many people in our lives. They may accompany you through a journey or accompany you throughout your life, but everything we meet is fate. Some people say that fate is not about meeting people in a sea of ??people, but about missing each other before going to bed and waking up. From the first chance meeting to the later knowledge of each other, every relationship is worth cherishing.

13. In fact, living is really a beautiful thing. It does not lie in how beautiful and spectacular the scenery is, but in who I meet and feel warmed. Then I hope that one day I will become a little sun. To warm others.

14. No matter how angry you are, as long as a period of time passes, most of the original emotions will gradually lessen and cease to be anger. They will basically drop to the level of "sadness" or "regret" and return to calm.

15. Everything that appears in life cannot be owned, it can only be experienced. Those who know this deeply will understand: there is no such thing as loss, it is just passing; there is no such thing as failure, it is just experience. Look at life with a browsing heart. All gains and losses, hidden and revealed, are scenery and style.

16. Life cannot always be smooth sailing, nor can it always be stormy. No matter what happens, please remember to be free and easy, open-minded, and open-minded, and your life will become better.

17. Life advice: Run away from anyone or anything that consumes your happiness.

18. The required course in life is to accept impermanence, and the elective course in life is to let go of persistence. There is no easy path in life. We can only choose a path that is more suitable for us, and then rely on Use your own efforts to decide how you look and live the kind of life you most want to have.

19. People who like to gossip and fabricate stories behind your back have three reasons: they are not at your level, they don’t have what you have, and they are trying to imitate your lifestyle. Why care!

20. Don’t say anything. If it were the beginning, even if you do it over ten thousand times, you will still have regrets. Even if you avoid the fire pit, you will fall into the mud pit; even if you hug the heater, you will get burned. Live a good life Now, more than anything else!

21. Rich people like to say "money is not everything", good-looking people like to say "actually appearance is not the most important thing", and thin people like to say "actually it is better to be fatter and healthier". People who work hard like to say that "hard work is not the decisive factor." They just said it casually and hypocritically, but you seriously believed it.

22. In this world, everyone has selfish motives, and no one is willing to wrong himself to tolerate another person. All concessions are due to caring, and all tolerance are due to valuing.

23. Don’t struggle with the villain, because he can’t survive in the first place; don’t struggle with the society, because you will struggle with it; don’t struggle with yourself, because everything will pass; don’t struggle with the past, because it has passed. ;Don’t struggle with reality, because you still have to live.

24. Don’t complain that life has given you too many hardships, and don’t complain that there are too many twists and turns in life. Attribute every failure to an attempt without feeling inferior, and imagine every success as a kind of luck without feeling proud. Face setbacks with a smile, accept happiness, taste loneliness, overcome sadness, and face everything life brings to us.

25. Half of the ups and downs in life are pits dug by life, and half are holes pierced by our own edges and corners. Our journey is so difficult, often not because of lack of effort, but because we are covered with thorns that we like but not life.

26. When you reach a certain age, you must throw away four things: meaningless drinks, people who don’t love you, relatives who look down on you, and hypocritical friends. But you must have four things: the confidence that shines on your face, the kindness that grows in your heart, the backbone that is melted into your blood, and the strength that is engraved in your life.

27. When a person walks in the world, it is all in vain, so why bother worrying about everything and not giving in at every step. Talking too much will hurt people, and worrying too much will hurt the mind. Rather than hurting people and hurting the mind, it is better not to bother the mind. I want to live my whole life with a clear conscience and be at ease. When the heart is happy, life is easy; when people are at ease, life is worth living!