Love problem: my girlfriend learned Latin dance and asked for a date, but I refused on the spot. Everybody tell me if I'm doing this right? She is not a professional dancer.

First of all, your attitude is commendable. Every man wants his girlfriend to be his own, even if it is a little impurity, he doesn't want to see or hear it. This is also the most powerful reason and interpretation. Here, I support your position.

However, things are often not easy to choose. You are not wrong, and neither is she.

The question is whether you respect her and whether she understands you. If you respect him, you want her to learn to dance. If she understands you, she won't learn to dance again, and she won't use other methods.

Let me give you a suggestion. Wouldn't it be better for you to learn dance with her? If not, then persuade her to change the dance.

Now you have to learn to be tolerant and patient silently. It depends on how far you can see. . . .