Girl, life is short, you have to be sexy

This is a topic I really want to write about. I conceived it for a few days and figured out the framework. I even thought of a title that made the reading volume increase. But I really like the sentence "Life is short, you have to be sexy". It is simple and powerful. Yes, girls, life is only a few decades, you have to live sexy.

In traditional Chinese education, girls are required to be well-behaved. Sex is unclean and taboo. So it is indescribable. Girls who grow up under such education are mostly submissive, weak and boring. It's hard for them to be sexy.

In fact, sexy is a kind of power. It consists of both physical strength and mental strength.

Physical strength requires the body to stretch and relax. According to my experience as a photography assistant, models with good expressive skills have an open body posture when facing the camera. This is a state of confidence, fearlessness, and very beautiful.

Spiritual strength, as the name suggests, means that girls’ spiritual world needs to be strong. Sexy girls may be flirtatious or naive, but in fact they have an indifferent attitude inside. They are bold, full of curiosity and desire to explore the world. They are not unreasonable girls, but have strong rational thinking and can play with the logic of thinking.

Therefore, sexiness is an advanced ability. There are not many sexy women. Sexy is definitely not revealing. It doesn’t mean wearing less clothes means you are sexy.

Although sexy is an advanced power, it is not difficult to achieve an average level of sexiness. Naturally, it is difficult for ordinary people to be as sexy as Queen Faye Wong and actress Shu Qi. When we reach an average level, we can please ourselves and attract a wave of younger brothers.

To achieve sexy, it is first of all physical.

1. Keep your body clean. There is a popular saying on the Internet: "Who doesn't like a sweet-smelling and soft young lady?" It can be seen that sexiness cannot be separated from the foundation of the body. Nowadays, girls in summer should take a shower every day and change their underwear every day. Then spray some perfume on it, and it will look sexy. Same goes for winter, keep it clean. I know that girls sometimes stay at home and don't like to wash their hair, but they will definitely wash their hair when they go out. Even the laziest ones have to wash their bangs. This is because body cleanliness is an important factor in sex appeal.

2. Dress appropriately for your temperament. Literary style, Mori girl style, frigid style and even niche styles such as Lolita clothing and Hanfu, as long as you find the dressing style, there are sexy ways to dress up. You can learn this by reading some fashion magazines. Remember, don’t be shy, wear a camisole if you want. Confident girls are sexy.

3. Fitness. A good figure is always a magic weapon to attract attention. As a girl, I like to admire women’s beautiful bodies, not to mention men? Whether it’s long legs, waist, voluptuous breasts or perky arms, we girls need to manage our bodies to maintain them. Fitness will help girls have a good figure and develop a good will. In my category, fitness includes practicing yoga and learning dance. These two can effectively and quickly cultivate your sexy ability. When you start to exercise, even if your height is not high enough or your body proportions are not good enough, it will be improved based on your original condition. Being sexy is not about a perfect body, but more about the ability to control your body. You have, you're getting close to sexy.

After listing the physical aspects, let’s talk about the sexy cultivation techniques on the spiritual level.

1. There must be a lot of reading and logic training. Our human life is limited, and books gather the essence of our predecessors and give us unlimited supplies. What should I do if I have nothing to talk to when communicating with the boy I like? This requires that you not only understand the jokes on Weibo and be able to post emoticons, but you also need to read more and be able to have in-depth and meaningful chats. You need to be able to talk about everything from poetry and poetry to philosophy of life, which requires a lot of reading and accumulation. Moreover, society generally believes that women are unreasonable and illogical. At this time, if you read logic thoroughly and have deep thinking, you will look super sexy. I recommend here some books that talk about communication skills and logic. "Nonviolent Communication", "Inferiority and Transcendence", and "Simple Logic" are all worth reading.

2. Have a hobby.

I think it's sexy to focus on something and get pleasure from it. Girls, you need to have at least one hobby to make your days sparkle. If you have hobbies, you will not be bored or get angry when your boyfriend is busy at work or attending a fraternity party. They play theirs, you play yours. For example, I like embroidery. I embroider two or three works every month. I also live broadcast the embroidery process and exchange techniques with handicraft enthusiasts. It is really fulfilling even if I don’t fall in love. If I had a boyfriend, I would send him an embroidered love letter. It should be a very sexy thing. There are many hobbies, girls just need to discover what they like and have a sense of achievement and satisfaction.

3. Be happy and smile more. In fact, I think this is the most important spiritual aspect. Girls who love to laugh will have good luck, and girls who also love to laugh are sexy. Long-term sexiness requires a good attitude. If you love to laugh, others will relax and get close to you. They will see your emotional and rational side and have the opportunity to be charmed by you.

Sexy is a beautiful word. On the road to sexiness, girls, we must bravely show ourselves and shine. In fact, every girl wants to be sexy and enchanting, so be bold.

Girl, life is short, you have to be sexy and lively to live up to this earthly life.