How do people destroy themselves?

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Everyone plays a different role in life. Some people make themselves better, while some people destroy themselves step by step. They mainly ruin themselves through the following methods:

1. Over-reliance on parents

The first step for many people to ruin themselves is to do nothing. Ask parents to help him with things, such as homework, fetching things, etc. Some people even need their parents to accompany them when they go to school. As time goes by, they still rely on their parents when they grow up, doing nothing at home all day, and never go out to work. They think that the money their parents earn from working is enough, and eventually they become a "chewing old clan". When their parents are no longer around, they lose their support. When they do something on their own, they find that they can't do anything well, so they can only give up on themselves and eventually destroy themselves.

Reliance on parents

2. Overwhelming self-confidence

Some people think they are invincible and unmatched by anyone after being praised a few times by others. yourself, thus bursting with self-confidence. He looked down upon others even more when it came to his studies. When someone asked him a question, he would answer it arrogantly, with a hint of disdain in his eyes. But when someone surpassed him, he would be surprised, wondering how someone could be better than him. He has been thinking about this problem since then, but he has never been able to figure it out. As a result, he no longer does anything well, has no interest in anything, feels confused about his life, and thus destroys himself.

Conceit

3. Give up when encountering difficulties

One of the important reasons why many people destroy themselves is to give up when encountering difficulties. Whenever they encounter a more difficult question or something difficult to do, they will choose to shrink back and don't even have the courage to give it a try. If this kind of people continue to be like this in the future, they are destined to have no bright future. They may even encounter something that seems difficult but is actually not difficult in the future, and they will not do it, and the opportunity will always be left to others. Isn't this equivalent to destroying yourself by not leaving a way out for yourself, but paving the way for the future of others?

Escape from difficulties and give up opportunities

4. Showing off all day long

Showing off can be said to be the main culprit that ruins oneself. Nowadays, many college students work hard to get into a good university before going to college. However, after getting into a good university, they gradually start to indulge. They play games and read novels all day long, do not listen to the homework in class and do not finish it, even if they sit there and zone out. I am not willing to study for a while. In the long run, such people will surely destroy themselves and must pay the price for their actions.

Playing games all day long

It is very simple for a person to want to destroy himself. A small move can destroy himself; but if he wants to succeed, it is more difficult than reaching the sky. It is difficult and requires unremitting efforts to achieve it. People who are not determined will only get closer and closer to destroying themselves.

The above is my opinion, I hope it can be helpful to you.