How to enlighten a girlfriend who is afraid of premarital marriage

Premarital phobia is a typical phenomenon in modern society. Premarital phobia patients show obvious pre-marital anxiety. So let's enlighten a girlfriend who is afraid of premarital marriage.

How to enlighten a girlfriend with premarital phobia 1? The enlightenment method of premarital phobia: keep an open mind and communicate with each other more.

Premarital phobia will affect life and work, mostly manifested as irritability, impatience, irritability, while others are silent, affecting work life and even the feelings of both parties. How to overcome pre-marital phobia? After a series of fear symptoms appear, both sides may wish to visit each other's home frequently, get to know her family, communicate with both sides and their families, and get to know their future family directly or indirectly. This process is also a process of psychological gradual adaptation. When you have doubts and fears about the durability of marriage, you should keep an open mind and be able to communicate with each other in order to dispel this doubt.

The most important thing is to know what causes my girlfriend to have premarital phobia and what makes her anxious, and then better communicate with her and gradually solve this problem. If the other person suddenly doesn't want to get married, don't rush to deny the feelings of both sides. You should ask more reasons for their worries and concerns. Solving them will be good for your married life.

2. Premarital phobia enlightenment method: divert attention and let your girlfriend exercise properly.

Exercise is also a good way to relieve anxiety. You can choose a sport that your girlfriend likes, and then do it together to sweat. Sweating won't make you feel bad. Running is the best, simplest and most convenient exercise. If you feel monotonous, you can listen to music while running. Besides relaxing, exercise can also help you lose weight, killing two birds with one stone.

3. Premarital phobia enlightenment method: slow down communication with family.

Don't worry about everything you need to discuss with your family. After listening to your family's suggestions, put them aside and think about whether their suggestions are reasonable. Don't let unnecessary troubles put pressure on your girlfriend. The wedding affairs are very complicated and need a quiet heart to design. Slow down the pace of communication and enjoy all the wedding preparations with a relaxed mind.

The performance of women's pre-marital phobia is that they are worried about not getting along well with their mother-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a difficult problem. I really don't know how to get along with a strange woman. You might as well be your own mother.

Worried about not being free after marriage. I've always been used to freedom. I really want to get married and have children. Acting like a housewife is really unbearable.

Worried about losing charm after marriage. Beauty enjoys being chased now. If they don't always get married, these spoony men will always follow their pomegranate skirt. Women's unmarried is the biggest capital, so they can enjoy men's love to the fullest, and they don't have to be a yellow-faced woman like housewives.

Worried that "marriage is the grave of love". They are disappointed in their marriage because they have heard too many cases of marriage failure. I think even if love is beautiful, there will be no passion and sweetness in marriage, only endless trivialities and troubles.

Worried that getting married will affect your job and future. Who doesn't want someone to love someone and hurt someone, and end their single life early, but marriage is not necessarily a good thing for women. Nowadays, the employment competition is so fierce that many female undergraduates who just graduated can't find jobs, let alone married women.

Several conditions that couples should consider before getting married. The marriage conditions discussed here are not the legal marriage age of the country, but the transitional stage from lovers to couples. Are you ready? You know, love is not the same as marriage, whether it is spiritual or material, we should consider it more. Let's talk about what conditions need to be prepared for marriage first!

1, we can communicate with each other.

As a qualified couple, the premise is that your relationship must be a friend, confidant or good friend. Unless your marriage is purely for carrying on the family line. Otherwise, you are not even friends. How can we really get married or be happy?

2. Other conditions that two people need before marriage.

* * * The same life values, able to accept each other's family and relatives, fully understand and trust each other, easy to communicate with each other when encountering problems, with dedication and sacrifice, tolerant and generous to each other, with basically the same interests, firmly supporting each other and accepting each other's family.

3, based on the basic material economy

Although many people still choose to get married naked, it is unrealistic to do so. Therefore, everyone must think carefully about these issues before getting married!