How does WeChat send a circle of friends with high emotional intelligence?

Wechat has become an indispensable tool in our life and work, and the circle of friends has also become a window for us to show our personality. I don't know what everyone is like. For me, if I add friends, I will see his circle of friends for the first time. Because from the circle of friends, I can know his occupation, roughly know this person's personality and usual living habits. Today, let's talk about the circle of friends with high emotional intelligence.

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I remember years ago, the company sent me on a business trip to talk about cooperation with a group company. The other party was the chairman of the group company. During the conversation, the other party's manners and manners were already an unreasonable person. It is worthy of being a talent who can make the enterprise bigger.

The cooperation talks went smoothly, and finally we added WeChat to each other. As usual, after coming down, I took a look at each other's circle of friends. After reading it, I quickly limited my circle of friends to friends in the last three days, and then I kept deleting the information of my previous circle of friends. Because I saw that the chairman's circle of friends was full of positive energy, of course, it was not as superficial as we thought, not chicken soup. Simply put, his circle of friends does not have these three messages.

1, spit things around, high-spirited; Everyone has his own way of life. Talking about others behind their backs is actually lowering their own style. 2. I didn't send my own plan; Planning is your own, and exposure is meaningless, either to show off or to give people a sense of existence. People with high emotional intelligence will not easily expose their plans. 3. Nothing personal. Personal grievances are limited to each other and should not be publicized. There are also corporate gatherings and activities in the circle of friends, as well as daily life. But none of the above three information is available. On the other hand, in my circle of friends, one is in a bad mood, one is in a strange situation, and the other is dissatisfied with the status quo. Perhaps relatively speaking, it seems that there is nothing wrong with being more flesh and blood, and I believe that I am definitely not the only one who makes friends like this. But after repeated comparisons, I feel that if I am a new friend and see his circle of friends, I will feel that this person's life is positive. He has a life and a job, and he is also flesh and blood. On the other hand, my circle of friends may be just a circle of friends, which can't give people a good impression. No matter work or life, I will make new contacts, and new contacts are very important to my first impression, so this is a lesson I have been taught. Later, I will refrain from sending the above three kinds of friends circle information. After a while, I actually find that my friends circle seems to be much cleaner, and even feel that my depressed friends circle is like spam.