There must be one person in the three-person friendship who is not that important, right?

Yes, because there are always two people among the three who can have a particularly interesting conversation, but you may not be able to participate in it, and sometimes, the three people will ignore the feelings of the other, so the friendship between the three people , there must be one person who seems redundant and is in an awkward position.

Then I want to talk about my story: Mr. A and I were really good friends when we were freshmen. When I was freshmen, I loved to have fun and participated in all activities, so I I would participate in external school activities and on-campus activities, and no surprise, I called Mr. A, so of course we two became very good friends. Then, Mr. B, who had always been in a loose circle in the class, mostly alone, later joined in somehow.

The main reason is that we went together for a short-term outdoor experience during the summer vacation of our freshman year, and then we also took classes together for our sophomore year, and then the three of us were in the same class. The result was that Mr. A and Mr. B became very good friends. The three of us were also very good friends on the surface, but in reality we were just friends. For example: If I post something about Mr. A in Moments, Mr. B will never like it, and Mr. A will never like it if he posts something of mine. What's more, what makes me curious is that someone who was originally alone, later came to pester others for something. Even if she could do something alone, she had to do it with two people, and then I was the one who was isolated.

After thinking about it, we are actually not that close. On the birthdays of Mr. A and Mr. B, I specially wrote a circle of friends for them, especially Mr. A, because I really regard Mr. A as a friend in my heart. However, on my birthday, we were still together that day. We didn’t take any photos together. We were still together in short-term outdoor activities. However, they sent photos of the scenery that day, except for me. I'm really sad.

And what I don’t understand about the whole process is: What Mr. B showed during the entire short-term outdoor activity experience, and what we felt, were all bad. We even talked together and found out that this person was actually not as good as we thought. In other words, Mr. A has made it clear that he does not like Mr. B.

But after the start of my sophomore year, Mr. A called Mr. B for everything, and he actually forgot about me. The three of us are still together, but I have become the redundant one. The saddest time was watching them secretly telling secrets, and then I came and stopped. The saddest moment was when I asked Mr. A to have dinner. Mr. A said that my mobile phone only had 1 battery left, so I stopped talking. But 10 minutes later, she liked it on Moments and posted the video.

The saddest moment is the dissatisfaction. I can’t express these things that I know, because they will not understand and will say that I am inexplicable. But invisibly, I was made transparent. Thinking about it later, Mr. A once told me that I looked like a top student, and I felt that I had a good background, and he had a very good impression of me. But a year later, she told others ugly things about me: I often missed classes, was late, slept all day long, and my grades were not as good as she imagined, while Mr. B was.