How thoroughly can an uncle in his thirties see a girl in his twenties?

who can say how thorough you are? I dare not say how thorough it is even in my 5 s! But, after all, I have been in the society for so many years. Simply sharing it only represents the situation around me, and there are too many people who like to wrangle ... I also had my twenties, and when I first entered the society, most men and women were cautious, timid, confused, angry, imaginative, jealous, unwilling and naive. When I am in my thirties, I will like to classify others ... Let me talk about my work first, and then emphasize that I will only talk about my surroundings, my level, the system, and the coordinates of Beijing suburbs. Some girls have just come to work, and they are smiling every day. Talking to everyone is a spring breeze, and everyone likes her at first. Slowly, the problem emerged. She was easy to stand in line and was keen on hugging her thighs. Those who were useful fawned on her, while those who were useless were cold. Then you would understand that her initial enthusiasm was to observe, and when she found out the situation, her true colors were revealed. Generally speaking, at best, this is ambitious and self-motivated; at worst, it is extremely utilitarian. Such people should not be intimate, but just meet them. Some girls don't talk much, they are extremely low-key, they smile at everyone, and they are polite and courteous, which belongs to the precocious type. Make a fortune, sit quietly and watch the tigers fight. On the surface, you are indifferent to the world. In fact, you know better than anyone. You can't find anything wrong with this job, work hard, and work hard. When the time is ripe, you will try to choose a higher platform. There are girls who are naive and simple, and are full of stupidity, but they are sincere to people. If you are good to her, she will be good to you. If you bully her, she will directly care for you. People are not addicted to officialdom, just trying to get a stable job and feel comfortable. Generally, this kind of girl has a family life. With my personality and state, the first one stays at a respectful distance from others, the second one is well-being, and the third one is mostly close. It's just that this third kind of talk loves to wrangle and joke, and I sometimes rub fire ... However, I'm one of these people, and they all say that birds of a feather flock together, so they are more tolerant of each other. Next, I will talk about the concept of mate selection, and I can divide it into three categories. These three categories are not the same thing as the three categories in the above work, nor are they corresponding. In the first category, if you know exactly what you like, people in college will talk about it. They will get married after a year or two of work. There is nothing to say. When they get married, there will be no problem of choosing a spouse. When you ask, you don't think so much. If you like it right, you will get married. The second category is those who don't want to choose a spouse or whose requirements for choosing a spouse are not clear. Living a carefree and colorful single life every day, I don't think about getting married and dating at all. I just ask how good it is to be single. However, after 28, most of them are forced or take the initiative to become a member of the blind date army, and a considerable number of blind dates are not smooth, high or low, and many of them hold the fantasy of little girls in marriage and meet people who are satisfied with each other. Some of these blind date people get married when they meet the right one, while others stay alone when they don't, mainly relying on metaphysics. These are all things that I want to find, but I can't find them. There are still a few people who don't want to find a single heart. These female colleagues are average in face value, average in ability, average in family background, introverted, unlovable and unlovable. They play their own games, get in touch with each other in life, and there is no problem between colleagues. The third category is extremely purposeful and very clear about what you are looking for. Speaking of it, it is actually the kind of girl that most men don't like. Don't like it? It doesn't matter, such girls usually get what they want. If you describe this kind of girl, it is that the individual is excellent, the family is very ordinary, the face value is passable, and the emotional intelligence is very high. They know how to compromise for the purpose, so most of their work and life are winners. Therefore, on the issue of mate selection, it is not what everyone thinks. If you are beautiful and have money at home, you will definitely marry well and get married with Gao Fushuai? The so-called love of business and emotional intelligence is too important, and the emotional value of women is too important for men. Simply thinking that hard power is everything, I think you may be simple ... Girls in their twenties, born after 9, are mostly more individual, have their own ideas and recognize "reason". However, whether life is good or work is good, there are so many "right". There are too many gray areas in society, which are not black or white, and people are also very complicated. It is not just "good or bad" that can judge, so women in their thirties generally don't like to argue with people about right or wrong. Little girls can't do it yet, but they will do it sooner or later. Take a preventive shot in advance. After 1 years, whether men or women, you are likely to become indifferent, numb, accustomed to it, sit in your comfort zone and only care about your own things, and you will become more tolerant and compromise. Most people will be like this, but it is not necessarily a bad thing. It is always said that it is not easy to see through yourself at the age of 3.