"I was unhappy in the first half of my life. I hope my daughter will marry a rich man and enjoy happiness with him." Is this normal thinking?

I saw a news on the Internet. The woman is 30 years old and graduated from junior college. She has a good job and all the conditions are OK. From the age of 25 to now, I have met some men with good conditions. Although the daughter agreed, her mother refused, saying that the other party's conditions were not good enough.

The condition in the mother's mind is that a man's family must have at least one thing, that is, money, which can give his daughter a carefree and happy life and enjoy happiness with him at the same time.

My mother said that the first half of her life was too bitter. She lives with an incompetent man. My daughter divorced at the age of three and raised her independently. Now she thinks that her daughter can marry a rich man and enjoy happiness with her.

This mother is a good mother and a great mother, which we can't deny. A woman who raised her daughter alone and gave her a good education deserves to spend the rest of her life happily.

However, there is a little problem, probably because I am too obsessed with happiness and have some paranoia, and I want a man with good conditions. My daughter is 30 years old and has good conditions in all aspects. It is conceivable that at the age of 25, there will be some good men among the men who should date, but my mother thought she would meet better ones in the future, so she refused.

Now my daughter is 30 years old. Although this age is not very big, it has also affected her to some extent, gradually reducing her advantage. Men you meet after 30 will only be worse than before.

Therefore, this mother is actually a bit selfish. Although she has great maternal love, she can't hide her selfish side. She wants to spend the rest of her life happily rather than finding a rich man for her daughter. She used her daughter to achieve this goal.

In fact, it is easy for her to live a happy life. With a daughter's condition, if she marries a man with good conditions, life will naturally not be bad, and her daughter will be very grateful to her.

However, instead of doing so, she went her own way. So, this has produced a result. That is, my daughter didn't find a rich man, or found an unwanted rich man, and then her daughter began to hate her mother.

Mothers want to live a happy life, largely from their daughters. If the daughter's heart begins to hate her mother, then the happy life will naturally be gone.

This matter is not easy to evaluate, so let's talk about blind date. The biggest problem with blind date is that the woman is dissatisfied and thinks the next one will be better. But time waits for no one, and if we drag on, we will become older women, and we will run out of advantages bit by bit.

Two people like each other and have similar conditions, so let's stay together. This kind of thing, emotion, will only be realized if you really put yourself in it, and then you will know whether it is really suitable.